My man i know luvz me for many real reasons but he cheats i dont understand why sex is still good anyone know?
2007-02-20 05:16:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we also have kids he leaves me in charge of his money buys me stuff and so on i do understand that its not right and i do beleive he aint happy when i talk to him nad make him admit it he saya there nothing hes just hitting hell be right back i dont like it or agree to it i ve been with him for 9 yrs and i honestly dont have nobody no mom or dad ive been home the whole time inm now 26 how do i take care of living and my kids needs with no education im stuck i feel useless and totally betrayed.
2007-02-20 05:37:21 · update #1
My opinion is that this guy is jackAss. but things are more complicated. I will not say he loves you or that he dose not. and i dont think it got nothing to do with the quality your sex. he might have better sex with you then with other girls he cheats with. there are numerous possible reasons for him to cheat. the most common is boredom. he wants some thing new.
I my self am not a good example. I never felt the need to cheats.
I got a friend, a woman. she cheats on her boyfriend with an old man.
she is 23 he is 48 ( the guy she is cheating with). her boyfriend is a tall muscular man and she wants an old wrinkled man. why is that? she loves her boyfriend but living with him is a returnee it is boring. the old man provides her fun. the boyfriend provides security. In man thats not that different. man cheat cause they need some thing new, we all love the freshnes of a new romance, and a relationships are more boring! most man go and cheats but thay allweys return to the safe long and boring relationship!
I think in order to have a relationship with out cheating both partners must be friends and lovers not just lovers.
2007-02-20 06:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by daglas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not love you. I hate being so blunt about it, but he cheats cause he is an immuture little boy who don't understand the first thing about being in a relationship. What's going to happen when he brings you back an STD? He say's he loves you cause he knows your going to fall for it every time.If he honestly loved you his you know what would stay in his pants. Get out of this while you still can. Good Luck hun.
2007-02-20 13:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Amber Vance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does sex being good have anything to do with him cheating? Obviously your not hurt by this. But if you are then dump him already. Your the one being made to look like the fool if you keep him.
2007-02-20 13:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who loves you would never cheat on you. If he cheats, he does NOT love you. You are disposable to him, since he is willing to throw your relationship away solely for a roll in the hay! Dump him and then get to work on your self-esteem and self-worth!
2007-02-20 13:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love you, but not enough to put you before his own selfish urges. Satisfying himself sexually is #1, you are #2 or lower.
He's disrespecting you, betraying you, possiblying bringing home STDs to you, and who knows what else.
Why are you tolerating it?
2007-02-20 13:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they cheat it isn't really love.
it's that simple. you don't want to hear that but it's true.
if you really love someone then a couple hours of fun is not worth hurting them
2007-02-20 13:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by randini692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dont because that aint love.
2007-02-20 13:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey.....MOVE ON!!! Yes sometime it still works but if he cheated on you then more than likly he is not happy and more than likly is still cheating on you! SORRY!
2007-02-20 13:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋