don't you think his too young for me but he loves so much ,for an example he brought me a nice 18k necklace with a carat diamond for valentine day .It's just i always said he loves me but i'm just afraid that one day he decided to date with a younger girl than me.....
2007-02-20 05:19:37 · 13 answers · asked by BOOKEY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree that one day he may leave. Right now, everything is great. He has an older woman he is in love with. This is probably great for his ego and I'm sure at this time he loves you. But at 21 temptation may be too much for him. When some younger women out there find out he's with an older woman he may become a challenge for them. I hope I'm wrong. Good luck.
2007-02-20 05:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by voodoo man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Similar ages in a relationship don't matter, but similar goals and stages in life do matter.
Think of it this way; if he wanted to be with a younger girl, then he probably would have bought a younger girl a "nice 18k necklace with a carat diamond for valentine day".
People mature at different rates; why should they be restricted to potential partners in their own age group? One of my friends is 24 and his wife is 32 (she's pretty immature for her age), while my girlfriend's 21 year old sister has a 32 year old boyfriend (she's pretty mature for her age). No one that I know of sees any problem with that as long as they get along well; just make sure you are on the same page about what you want!
2007-02-20 05:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, him buying you jewelry for Valentine's Day doesn't mean he loves you. It was sweet, but gifts aren't a measure of love. Second, don't worry so much about his age. Someone older than you can hurt you just as easily as someone younger. If everyone worried so much about the possibility of being hurt in a relationship, no one would ever let themselves love or be loved. You can't predict the future, and neither can he. But if being with him makes you happy, why not just go for it? What have you got to lose?
2007-02-20 05:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by OhKatie! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't mention an important detail: do YOU love him? is it enough if he loves you, without you sharing his feelings?
anyway, what's that about he buying you "a nice 18k necklace with a carat diamond"... do you think that this means he loves you? a necklace can mean LESS than a flower if it is not given from the heart
2007-02-20 05:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by sea_star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is very true it might be going good for right now but with him being so much younger than you if the relationship continues into the future he might want to trade in the old for someone younger or even closer to his age this happens to alot of relationships with a big age difference you might not think its going to happen to you but trust me i know a few people in this same situation as you grow older you tend to not have anything really in common cuz its two different generations basically and you have experienced alot more than he has and he will be going through what you already have do you really want to go through that all again...best bet i guess if you arent looking into the future than i guess see where it goes thats all you can do
2007-02-20 05:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it day by day! Age is just a number. Do you guys have alot of things in common. Are you a more of a companion, lover or mother to him. Do you love him or do you love the attention you might not be getting from men your own age?
These are questions only you have the answers to!.
Good luck!!
2007-02-20 05:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he posted earlier today. I advised him against you.
You only have about 10 years of being attractive left. Is he really going to be happy when he's 40 and you're 50? You'll look like his mother at that point and he'll be looking at 30 year olds.
It won't happen right away, but it will happen.
2007-02-20 05:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personally think that age is just a number, its how you feel on the inside about the guy. i am 17 and wanting to date a 22 yr old is that wrong? id say stay with him and make the best out of it if ur happy. good luck
2007-02-20 05:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was concerned with your age he wouldn't have committed to anything at all. And the chances of him leaving you are just as high as the changes of any guy leaving you. Its just something you gotta deal with and risk. Focus on having a good time with him, dont focus on losing him.
2007-02-20 05:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell that he loves you. Make him Wait! And most likely this type of age gap relationships usually dont work. So good luck!
2007-02-20 05:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋