My boyfriend stopped calling me and stopped taking my calls, without telling me why,am still in love with him and find it very hard to move on. my friend's thinks he does not love me anymore and that iam pathetic for trying to get him back, i do want to move on bt i can't . pls what do i do?
2007-02-20 03:42:09 · 24 answers · asked by dgem 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on it sounds like your friend is right you are not pathetic tho just hung up on a guy thats not worth your attention
2007-02-20 03:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey a similar thing happened to me 6 months ago and we'd been together on and of for 7 years. He just didn't have the guts to sit down and finish with me properly. You aren't pathetic for still wanting him and for finding it difficult to move on I'm still feeling that way & although I get on with my life I'm still hurting like mad and tearful when I think too much. But get this I know now that there's nothing wrong in feeling this way, I am getting thhere and in my own time. Don't let people put you down and if your 'friend' can't say anything positive to you or even just be there for you and say nothing then sweetie loose her. I hope it gets better for you soon just remeber that after winter sprin always comes!
2007-02-20 03:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by LMac100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your friends,not about you being pathetic but that he doesn`t love you,believe me i kmow thats hard to deal with and accept as i`m going through the same thing just now.
As my ex told me if he loved me and wanted to be with me,he wouldn`t have stayed out for nights at a time and ignore my calls.Your bf/ex obviously doesn`t respect you any more than mine did so just get shot of him,he is not worth your time and effort.Of course you probably want some closure,i didn`t get that either my ex stayed out from work one friday and i only got a couple of voice texts sent and his phone waas off,he eventually told me over the phone that he was leaving me and our son again,came over and picked up his stuff with a taxi waiting outside.Now that in my book is so disrespectful.
Just try your hardest to move on as i am and it is hard especially as i have a child to my ex but i haven`t seen him since he left 6 weeks ago,i know he`s with someone else and it hurts like mad but i`m not going to sit about waiting on him like i did before,i`m gonna get on with my life for me and my son and get some self respect back and i advise you to do the same.Keep busy ,go out with your friends and remember he didn`t have the decency to end your relationship properly so he isn`t a man but a coward.
Goodluck and chin up:)
2007-02-20 03:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to move on from a relationship you weren't ready to see end,its sounds like he isnt interested anymore and he could of done the decent thing and explained why things weren't working out.You are not pethetic and most of us have been there. You will see eventually that you deserve more and remember that time is a great healer, get out and enjoy yourself. :)
2007-02-20 03:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bobby J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u find out he was actually being a dick and leaving you hanging then u dont need to try anymore! its going to be hard, real hard, but every song ends, but do u stop listening to music? thats how u need to do ur love life, life isnt hard, but u have to deal with it the best way possible, hang out with friends, maybe stay the night with girlfriends or something like that, friends will keep you sane... :) best of luck
2007-02-20 03:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by JJG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not pathetic. We al have these problems at some time or other. I am sorry it is your turn to suffer at the moment. You should do what you want to do. We quite often regret more some of the things we didn't do when we had the chance. HTH LOL
2007-02-20 03:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by R.E.M.E. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG this is how i feel RIGHT NOW! but ya know..its ok..it takes time! you will still feel a lil hurt inside but just try to be with your friends and with other people who will distract your thoughts about him! it will work trust me! if you do think of him then try to think of why he's not the right one for you cuz you can do better! good luck!!..and for the record NO your not pathetic!!!
2007-02-20 03:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by tls_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never easy moving on but why should you torment yourself b cuz he's acting like a jerk. He's probably having the time of his life with god knows who and your braking your head he's not worth it and you deserve better. Good luck and remember best way to get over one is to get under another one lol !!!!!
2007-02-20 04:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by precious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you, aah shame man. Try and get to see him face to face. Ask him what is wrong. If he just moves away and ignores you then you know he wants nothing to do with you. Then just get on with your life, nothing you do or say to him is going to change his mind. I do think he is acting very nasty and personally if i were you i would just give up on him . You must be heartbroken but believe me you will get over him and in years to come you will ask yourself how did i ever get to fancy such an idiot. Take care and i wish you well, you will get over it ok.:))))
2007-02-20 03:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't much you can do other than try and forget him - if he won't take you calls that is his way of saying it is over. Go to his house and ask him perhaps hearing it from him will help you to move on
2007-02-20 03:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋