I have been seeing this girl for more than 2 months now and we just became friends. I had a girlfriend when i met her and she had a bf. Now a month and a half ago i broke up with mine and the same weekend she broke up with hers. We have become really good friends since, we have the same things in common and such. She does admit to having feelings for her ex and i do the same seeing how it was not to long ago but we both agreed that we need to move on. Now i think she likes me and i know i like her but i dont want to ask just in case she gets weird or she changes her views. It seems like she wants to see me more and i talk to her at least once a day. As time has gone by i have seen more and more of her and we have been on 2 "friend" dates.
Also she wants to go away on a vacation in the summer and wants to start getting it together now. I know its a sudden thing but i wanted to do somthing crazy for once so i agreed.Could this be a sign that she likes me or just a friend thing?
2007-02-20 03:54:11 · 14 answers · asked by lethalx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She went out last night with a guy friend of hers to the mall but when she got home she made sure to message me that she was going to bed and that she wanted to say goodnight. I think thats a good sign. I am by no means the jealous type unless needed. (thats understandable i think)
Im just afraid it might be to early for her because she just got out of a relationship and still might have some feelings left.
2007-02-20 04:08:57 · update #1
The only thing is the vacation is not until July! haha. Thats a while away to get things together. I mean i have no problem taking things slow but i also dont want to lose out.
2007-02-20 04:15:49 · update #2
First of all forget the old girlfriend and never admit having feelings for an old girlfriend, a new girlfriend never wants to hear that. I don't know what "getting it together" means. When I like a girl I have what I call a ten step plan. Step 1 may be holding hands and 10 having sex. You move from 1 to 10 when she stops you, you stop. This ten step plan sounds odd but believe me it works, you don't push yourself on her just one step at a time.
You could try just telling her how you feel and that you want her to be her girlfriend.
2007-02-20 04:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she may like you too but may have some of the same doubtful feelings as you (if you know what i mean)! Shes taking it slow or playing it safe. Both of you are single so i say go for the vacation. Keep being friends and if its meant to be it will eventually happen! The more time ya'll spend together as just "friends" the more you will get to learn about eachother. I'm a girl and I've always thought being friends with a guy first was the best! The longer you are just friends the more comfortable you will feel around them and the easier things will become for the both of you! This vacation may be the start to a beautiful new relationship! Goodluck!
2007-02-20 04:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by socialdeelite1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her just tell her. If she likes you she'll tell you, but you should make the first move. She might be shy about things just like i've been ever since I can remember. I mean, if neither of you are willing to step up and tell the other how they feel then nothing will be done and you'll lose each other.
2007-02-20 04:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by ingham_elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what i think you should do...
let her know how you feel about her..and just tell her that you had to get it off of your chest and let her know. you never know if you keep your feelings inside then you could miss a great girl who feels the same way. take the chance and tell her how you feel, but do it in a way thats not like, over welming. tell her that you will under stand if she just wants to be friends, but be prepared that it might be weird/ awkward for her now.♥
2007-02-20 04:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by whtevrbtch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE SHE LIKES U shes just testing the waters ,as in she wouldnt like to add another failed relationship to her belt so shes asked u out as afriend so no strings attached nobody gets blamed if thins go wrong go ahead take the plunge im sure its gonna work out best luck
2007-02-20 04:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to think I'm being too simple for such a complex situation but I swear it's the right answer; Just kiss her. If she likes you she will kiss you back, if she doesn't like you she won't. If you guys need to talk she will start talking. Just kiss her.
2007-02-20 04:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Tim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Making future plans is a sign. She wants to make sure you'll be there. Trust me on this, I try to do it too. But things just don't work as well for me....
2007-02-20 03:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Ni-Kay! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn! thats a classic well just go out and say it b4 its too late and she finds somebody else dont hold back as far as u know she feels the same way!!
2007-02-20 03:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by lkllauren 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take the plunge!....say look....I really consider you an awesome friend...but I feel as though it could be more...and I was wondering if you have thought this too?.....
2007-02-20 03:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her! Trust me....if you don't tell her she will think that you don't like her....and thats bad.....you need to tell her how you feel! Its obvious that she likes you the same so just tell her!
2007-02-20 04:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by ηєvєrmorє 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋