i always feel alone i am trying to work things out with my babies dad but when i am with him i feel all alone and like i don't exist someone got any advise for me
2007-02-20 03:47:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I get the feeling that you are worried and it seems like your children's father isn't mature or is afraid they feel they aren't up to being there for you.
The person may be better off not being married don't have any more kids until you work this out he seems like he is overwhelmed and this doesn't sound good.
Make a safe happy decision for you and your children.
i know it's hard do you have any education I mean can you support yourself.
Many people don't have something inside of them that makes them good partners. Some of them are just not the family type and some have illness that they have inherited from family that keeps it secret as they are ashamed of their problem or don't even realize they are ill.
life is too short step back if you are kind and loving you will find the person that will enhance your life not someone that you will have to support or be his mother for the rest of your relationship.
2007-02-20 04:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by Yahoouser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have ever bin truly unhappy can you be truly happy ! So sounds like your stepping in the right direction. ( feeling alone can make you feel like you may be truly unhappy ) However as far as you feeling alone ..... you might not feel that way if you told your babies dad how you are feeling. keeping in mind not to sound nagging, but concerned that you are missing too much of one anthers lives and at least one of you has noticed. One more thing always be confident that no matter what your feelings are always valid. sometimes all we need nothing more than the recognition of are feelings.
2007-02-20 12:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by james l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of women try to work things out because the guy is familiar. we dont want to be alone so we stay with them but even if we are with them, we still feel alone. happiness is so important to living a healthy life. when you are happy, you feel like you can conquer the world. there are some really good guys out there but you will never find one if you continue to hold on to him. you need to be willing to be alone for a while so that you can clear him out of your system and make way for someone new. spend more time with your kids and forget about him, you will be happy when that new guys comes along and is willing to give you everything you need because it comes naturally to him.
2007-02-20 11:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you are sad and newly married, something is wrong with your communication skills. You must learn how to identify your wants and needs and make them mesh with your spouse's requirements. This is the way to happiness in marriage. When you can do things for her (or him) knowing that reciprocal conduct is automatic, you'll be happy.
2007-02-20 11:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by jonquil323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says you can't be happy??? Hey, you also have your own life!! It's all about the choices you make for yourself. Nobody ever deserves to be unhappy unless start to stand up for something. It might be too easy to say this for you but really, you should do something for yourself something that's rewarding. Nobody can ever make you feel that way, especially your husband.
2007-02-20 11:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make you feel so much better if you did something for yourself. Take a college course, meet someone new. There's a big world out there.
2007-02-20 11:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by dawn22859 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be happy when YOU choose to be. It doesnt depend on ANOTHER. Perhaps HE has a problem. Put your full efforts into YOU and your BABY, rather than 'daddy'.
2007-02-20 11:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think dat is cuz the fireworks have died out.
I think he mite feel the same if u feel dat way
If you are married to him and you get a divorce u dont want to do that to the kids but u no that is wut you have to do if you wanna be happy. Maybe if you do you find TRUELOVE sumwhere where u least expect it
2007-02-20 11:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by I<3CSI:MIAMI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur not happy u dont need to be with him let him be ur babies daddy and thats it.
2007-02-20 11:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short...........Even harder when you have kids involved. He thinks that wont anybody want you with kids and you need him......How can you treat the mother of your kids this way. Its like he dont love his kids either.
2007-02-20 11:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by McDaniel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋