I met this girl about 4 years ago and went to visit her in Holland a few times.We kissed and it was awesome,it was the best moment in my life.I have been thinking about her for the last 4 years and we have been in contact via e-mail every now and again.I am writing an e-mail to her now telling her how I feel and letting her know that it's not my intention to make her feel uncomfortable but that I think she should know how much I like her.
Does anybody have any advice?
2007-02-20 03:52:36 · 12 answers · asked by Benno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
calmly tell her what you feel. sometimes girls don't like total commitment straight away. don't freak her out by going right into saying "I love you" but first ease off with something more pleasant, like bring up a funny memory and say like how when you two kissed, it felt AMAZING, and that you really like her. if you two have been in contact for a long time, maybe she happens to feel the same way, but both of you are nervous to mention it. i think you both have something special together and might have a future if you take it easy and really do care about each other.
good luck
2007-02-20 04:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably pretty much guessed that you like her, but if you just want to make sure she knows how you feel. tell her that you like her but also tell her what you have said above, that you have been thinking about her since you last saw each other and that you have been wondering what it would be like if you were together. That way its all out in the open and from what has happened in the past i expect shes been thinking the same thing as you have
good luck =)
2007-02-20 04:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by make_a_wish995 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save up and go to visit her again. Tell her in person. If its a success, great! If not you get a holiday to Holland.
2007-02-20 03:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by theearlof87 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you suggest a get together for a drink, she might be unconfortable and forced to act on the email. Advise you dont send it, but meet up for a friendly drink or whatever and casually mention the past
2007-02-20 03:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by chrisbowe82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try striking a conversation related to your question, then slowly ease your way towards your real question. It's slow but affective, and it's how my BF got me on his team.
2007-02-20 04:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by may 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her exactly how u feel, girls appreciate the truth more than anything else, she shouldn't feel uncomfortable---she will b flattered x
2007-02-20 08:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by weeniki69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say you like her, don't let the statement just end there. Say how you would like to meet her in the future (it dilates the emphasis on the 'I like you').
Good luck.
2007-02-20 03:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if youve kissed then you should both already know you like eachother so just talk to her alot and see her alot and do what you have been doing I think she probably knows you like her and if she kissed you then that means she likes you
2007-02-20 08:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by DJIAE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you keep it light and just remind her of the kiss, then check out her response.
2007-02-20 03:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by LMac100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.....forget aboit a monogomous relationship. She has her own web-site on one of the porn formats in Holland.
She can really suck a schwanz tho.....and KISSS-S-S!!
2007-02-20 04:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by lalanmeyer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋