Why can't I find a boyfriend?

Question

I've just split up with my another boyfriend a few weeks ago.
Most of my relationships end up very dramatically.
Why is it like that? What do I do wrong?

Answer 1

The only thing you are doing wrong is that you are not giving yourself time and you are acting as if you are desperate. If you had many relationship and they've ended up dramatically or how ever you put it, I think you should give yourself time to reflect about what you want from a relationship andwhat you want for yourself.Think of what you've learned from your previous relationships and try to be in peace with yourself. Sometimes is nice to be alone, for sometime.

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with you at all. Boys are just idiots and they don't know what they are missing. I'm sorry but it is true and I'm sad to say that boys mature a lot sorry than girls. They just don't know how special you are.
But always do remember to be your best self and don't try to mislead guys. A word of advice; try to build a really good friendship before you official declare boyfriend/girlfriend. A friendship is built on trust for support. Once you two have that support, well you can only go up. So, try to be really good friends and gain that trust.

Just remember, to always be your very best self and you'll find someone.

Answer 3

You say MOST of your relationships end dramatically. Relationships don't always have to end that way but keep in mind that most relationships don't always end off on a good note either. I mean someone is getting dumped and someone is gonna get hurt, so what else can one expect? So that could be normal depending on what you consider DRAMATIC. So are you the dumper or dumpee? Are you a needy person? A co-dependant person? Can you add a bit more info? Your questions a bit vague to get a good answer.

Answer 4

The same reason why I cant find a good girlfriend.

Sorry Im going to speak about me for a second. You might releate to it.

I dont have problems pulling girls. I meet them all the time when Im out around town. But the relationships never last. A friend once said to me Im looking for lasses in the wrong place. 'Do you really want to see girls you pull in bars / clubs?' he said. I think he has a point.

Im not sure if you are in the same situation as me, but maybe you should look for a bf in different places to where u been looking. You might find someone decent.

But where to look...that is the question. Or just dont look, you might be supprised.

Answer 5

obviously it wouldnt be because of self-flattering, too over confident, self-absorbed, self-rightous standards. because these qualities never exist in any girl.

the trick is, to find out how it can possibly be the guys fault, even if there seems to be a pattern that points to you. if there is such a pattern, do what we women do best and let it fly over your head. just tell yourself that none of them were good enough for you because you deserved much much better then someone who could take care of you, pamper and spoil you, and had the nerve to not buy you that extra expensive gift or do exactly what you wished.

because hunni, your a princess, plain and simple.

its ok to keep dumping boys for no reason, even if they think they grown wise to your system, because once your old and wrinkled, youll have all the time in the world to figure it out. because old women who played men off when they were younger always stay in the drivers seat... i mean, thats how it is portraied in the movies, so therefore it must be like this in real life, right? not your problem if 100% of the boys don't follow those rules, because it is all about you, because your a specail princess :)

good luck and see ya at the gloria stienam chili festival ;-)

Answer 6

Are you afriad of commiment and are always running away when you and your boyfriend are getting close? Are you picking guys that you know won't work out so you have a reason to end the relationship? Maybe you should think about what you want out of a relationship. Be up front with your partner, and hopefully you will have a long term relationship. Good luck.

Answer 7

Most people have to high of expectations when they are in relationships. Do you sleep with the guy right away? If you do then try not doing that. If he sticks around for a while through that then chances are he will stick around when things are not going so good. Relationships will only last if the people in it are willing to work through things. Dont expect to for it to be perfect. Just work your way through it if you think he's worth it and make him understand that you want the same from him.

Answer 8

you are doing nothing wrong .your relationships may end bad but there is nothing wrong with that no relationship ends good. you just need to find your type of guy someone who will love you respect you and cherish and you do the same back. you can find a new boyfriend you just need to look harder. maybe its because you haven't got over you ex.

Answer 9

Was your relationship rocky from the start? I think that you just are lookining the wrong crowd. Try someone who is caring and a gentle person. Maybe you should look for someone who just likes to talk. Maybe you'll find someone you like. Just try something different for once, I'm sure you'll find someone. I wish you nothing but the best, and don't worry, you'll be fine.

Answer 10

Hi Anaconda

Maybe cause you a bit snakey?...Sorry could'nt help that one!

You not necessarily doing anything wrong, but it is difficult to help & give you advice without knowing more about the circumstances of your break ups

I hope things work out better for you next time ...
mail me if you want to talk in confidence

take care