so my now ex boy friend and i were together for 4 months on valentines day but on the day before valentines day he LIED to me 3 different times on why he couldn't see me on valentines day when he ended up hanging out with his buddies. so i didn't talk to him that whole day but he didn't even try talking to me until 2:00 (we go to different schools but we always txt each other during school) then i told him i was upset with him and he said well when you want to talk let me know. so the next day i txt him say hey and he didn't text back so then i asked him if he was giving me the silent treatment and he said no i just don't know what to say to you then he text me again saying he wanted a break but he didn't say why....he wont even talk to me and i don't know why...he wont answer anyones calls...not just mine...and he wont tell anyone what happened between us (i wont either because I DONT KNOW!!) i just need to know if him and i are completely done or if he'll come around and talk to me
2007-02-20 03:50:41 · 13 answers · asked by floydygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like you are broken up. When a guy is interested in a person, he doesn't leave them haning and wondering. He shows an interest. Obviously if this guy valued your relationship, he would put SOME effort into it and would not leave you wondering what the heck is going on. You don't need a guy who will do that to you. You deserve better treatment than that. Really. Don't cling to a guy who treats you with such disrespect as to not want to hang out with his girlfriend on Valentine's Day and to not tell her what's going on or if they are still together. If he thinks he can get away with treating you this way and you will accept that treatment, then he will continue mistreating you. There are plenty of guys who will treat you right. Go find one!! Best wishes to you.
2007-02-20 04:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, i think u guys are in a break, but don't be upset, sorry... i should say you shouldn't have much hope... he may not come back to you at all! you should strongly face the reality! and no escape from that! this way you'll be in less esmotional depression.. u know what i'm talkin about ;-)
My best friend had exactly the same situation as u about 5 months ago... her boyfriend had asked her to give her a break and that after 2 weeks he would call, but he didn't and even after a month didn't even answer my pal's calls... such a shame really! Novody knew what the reason could be!... and my bestfriend got depressed and GOD knows how tragic it was!... i think you MAY have the same problem{and u know guys are all the same in some ways!!!}... that's why i'm gonna give u some little tips==> you should be HAPPY even if he NEVER call you again! cuz this sounds like he's not strong enough to say what the problem is , he's so weak inside that he can't match his in 'n outside! That's absoloutly his OWN problem, if you had ever made a mistake in your relationship he should have STRONGLY told you, he didn't so it's his problem! I'm sure you've been honest and u sould be proud that you are the one who is RIGHT in this relationship... i don't wanna tell you what to do, i just tell what would i myself do if i were you{finally YOU make the decision!!!} I would NEVER go back for him... and if he came back to me i wouldn't accept him unless he explains what actually the problem used to be!
Good Luck dear...
:-)
2007-02-20 12:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by *Shiny*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give him time to think, don't pressure him into doing anything cause that would probably just push him away. Maybe you can also take this time to think if you really want him back. My ex just told me that he needed time away from me and at first was upset, cause I thought we were gonna try to work things out. But with this time apart I am able to think clearly and know exactly how I feel about him.
2007-02-20 12:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like that guy has got some problems. Just wait a little while he might be having family problems. Just give it a little while. write me and explain it a little better to me. I will try to help you the best i can because i know what your going through i just got out of something kinda like that.
2007-02-20 11:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by autumn donn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl drop this clown you are toooo good for him you sound like a nice person and a caring person dump him he is to scared to tell you the truth he has no spine ....be smart and move on guys like him are a dime a dozen you need one that will respect you for you take care of yourself and be happy ...love kara
2007-02-20 11:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that it is possible he is trying to figure out if he likes someone else more than you. I would say that you should move on because you want someone who is honest and would be willing to spend valentines day with you....
2007-02-20 11:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by biggsclimes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the lies were to let you know he has someone else, the silent treatment cuz she goes to his school, he dont know what 2 say cuz he want you to linger on him for awhile or until he finds out if he really want her
2007-02-20 11:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by pretty black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A break is just a softer way of saying "i'm through with you."
Consider it over, and move on.
2007-02-20 11:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop bugging him... When he wants to talk to you, he'l call. Stop wasting your money, if a man wants you, you'll know, you boyfriend/ex doesnt seem to like you that much!
2007-02-20 11:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by Linger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question by referring to him as your 'now ex-boyfriend' - it's over honey, move on...
2007-02-20 11:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋