There is a guy that is really hard to understand, he is obnoxious, he is rude on how he talks about other girls, but I think I am crushing on him.
He has been very nice to me, but his behavior towards other people bothers me. Also he is into things I don't agree with. I don't like him when I am talking with him, but when I am away he is what I think about. Its a work thing. And I feel a little mad when he talks to other girls.
How would I get a feeling of crushing to go away?
Why do I have slight flirtatious feelings for a guy I don't even like?
I don't want to like him!!!!
2007-02-20 03:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by blondieinlove 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you're just infatuated with this guy. That's all. He's rude to everyone but you, so in your mind he likes you. Not a bad thing, its all up to if you act upon it or not.
2007-02-20 03:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you see him as a challenge
subconsciously he think you can change him
but trust me you can't
a leopard never changes his spots
find something and someone positive to focus your attention on and do not waste time fantasizing about a situation that will only cause you stress in the future
what makes you think if you establish a relationship with him he will not be rude and obnoxious towards you
he is a manipulator and you sound like a needy enabler
allow yourself some dignity and self respect
use your heart not you hormones to lead you to find that person who will be right for you
2007-02-20 11:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your crushing on him?
Well get off him then. I wouldnt want people to sit on me either.
Girls are naturally flirtatious anyways it happens to everyone.
By the way, find a new word to replace 'crush' because you sound like a 13 year old.
2007-02-20 11:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bibsy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HUm, a tough one! I would think you could just tell him "Hey, I don't know why but I like you but not when you are rude to/about other girls. Do you talk like that about me? I'm really confused so until you can be a gentleman with the girls, I think I will avoid you,!" Then when ever your eyes meet, smile and turn/walk away.
2007-02-20 11:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by psws_12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too late sweetheart....you have already fallen for him. Two kinds of people will always be on ur mind, very good ones and very bad ones and it happens very often that sweet girls falls for bad boys so don't worry the feeling will go in a while, or u can do one more thing u can...........ask him out?
It's ur call.
2007-02-20 11:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky Lukes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You see him as a challenge. It's the thrill of the chase. The problem here is by your own admission, he's disrespectful, so if you valued your self-esteem more than the chase, you'd stop being an idiot.
2007-02-20 11:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't like rude obnoxious men, you should avoid him and get your mind on other things.
2007-02-20 11:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl you need to get away from that AND fast! Listen to what you are saying. If you can't stand him, then what the heck is the attraction???
2007-02-20 11:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
haha sounds like me!! just think of the bad things that drive you crazy about him (not the "good" crazy tho) and then you will frown upon that and then look for another guy! good luck!!!!
2007-02-20 11:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by tls_2007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL!!! I know this story. Here's a websight that might help you out. tuckermax.com
Good luck.
2007-02-20 11:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋