he is out of the country and lately, he is always too busy to talk. I hear women around him but he always seems to have an explanation that makes no sense. He picks up a fight with me when I ask him why he is acting different. I am so upset because I love him so much. Our relationship was great until now. I am tired of complaining and sounding like a desperate nag. I feel like he has someone new distracting him from me. The last time i called him he ignored my calls, I called again and he answered the phone not knowing. I heard a female voice. I then called him a little after, he answered, had a fight with me, told me he was in bed. I asked him to tell me what was really going on and he told me he was tired of me nagging him. That happened two days ago. I have not called him and neither has he. What do I do? Do I call him, not call him, ignore his calls if he does call or what do I say when he calls? What can I do to make him know that I am upset without acting like a baby?
2007-02-20 03:28:21 · 9 answers · asked by Piscess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wake up u doormat..he is cheating on you and is waiting until you dump him because he is a coward....get some self respect and tell him to go to hell.
2007-02-26 22:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hunny, What more do you need to from him to know that he has someone else? I'm sorry, it hurts, but you gotta let him go, DON'T call him, DON'T Take his calls, if his cheatin *** ever will call. Move on, forget about him and take it as a lesson learned. YOu need to get out the relationship with some dignity so just stay strong and don't call him!!!!! No one deserves to be treated like that...he's found someone else and the least he can do is fill you in on that..but he's not so don't give him the time of day!
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2007-02-20 11:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by beaner250 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, but it is quite obvious, that this relationship is just about over. The excuses that your boyfriend is making, are because he does not have the courage to be honest with you. I think you called him too many times already. Now you CALL the shots, IGNORE HIM and let him go. This is not a guy you really want. He is weak, obviously not interested, and has no character. Do not subject yourself to any more mistreatment or heartache.
2007-02-28 11:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's good that you didn't call him. If you did, then he would only say that you are nagging him. Can you e-mail him? If you can, email and tell him how you feel. Let him know that lately things are not the same and you just want to know what is occupying his time from you. If he hasn't call within a week, you can call him if you feel comfortable doing so. You both just need time to cool off.
2007-02-20 11:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First things first...grow up! Relationships are not games, and people are not playtoys.
From what I'm hearing, you aren't mature enough to handle a relationship, much less a long distance one. And your boyfriend is probably seeing that. Any female companionship that he has in his present country of residence is probably not nagging and bothering him...so he is spending time with them. Makes sense, doesn't it? Why would he want to continue a relationship with someone who is obviously jealous and insecure?
Let it go. Leave him alone. If he calls you...act like an adult. Don't nag...don't ask insecure questions.
2007-02-20 11:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Chicks in terms of having the big "chimistry" they crave are naturally atracted to cheating males - such seed spreaders have certain evolutionary genetic survival advantages
It is hard to believe a woman (with all their claimed intuition) quite early on does not sense or take notice of certain men as non-monogamous cheaters - and we certainly know the non-cheating/non-controlling 'nice guys" are often usually dumped in the garbage heap quite early on
Actually they do notice it - but they just don't care - because they are following their DNA programming to mate with men increasing their reproductive odds (in an evolutionary sense) - so chicks must accept this is part of their nature and stop complaining about men cheating and screwing around
2007-02-28 01:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear,,
have u power to react same is he reacting, if u have then do it on urgent basis. dont spoil urself, think if he can di this type of things then why cant u? u have ur life.
if u do same as he reacting then one of the two result will generate : if he loves u he will defenatily upset like u r now and he will be urs slightly, and if he not loves u then leave him, i know it takes time and got pain but dear think if he does not care of ur love, feeling then how can u care of.
dont show him that u r upset, show him that u r happy even he is not near by u.
and if he can find someone else then u r also free to other.
make sure u need to deal it with strong heart, if u loose ur emotion then definately u will get more n more pain then u fasing now.
if u got any problem then i m available.
thnx
2007-02-20 11:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by dear_farhan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
GET A GRIP even your Q's starts to get on the nerves. what you have is not love, it is jealousy and insecurity. nether make for a healthy relationship. LET THIS GO. find love and strength within and others will love you, maybe even this fool. but be carefull, he already has no respect for you.
2007-02-20 11:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ray2play 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This all means you're acting like a baby!
Go find a lesbian to fill your time.
2007-02-20 11:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by lalanmeyer 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋