Singles & Dating - 26 December 2006

Any ideas? My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend will NOT leave us alone. She knows exactly how he feels about myself. We dated 3 months and then he wanted to go back to her. That only lasted less than 24 hours and she was ready to move back into his house with him when he then called me and told me he had made a terrible mistake. She was there when he called me and told me that. Don't she get a clue??? He has tried being nice to her and telling her there is NOTHING there any longer. He knows this as the night they got back together they slept in the same bed and nothing happened and then the next day the same day he called me she was trying to comfort him when he was crying about myself and he said she touched him and he could tell then things were not what he thought and he had made the terrible mistake breaking up with me. SHe has sent terrible e mails to me in the past and also has put him down in them by disclosing any kind of harmful and embarassing things about him to me.

2006-12-26 15:48:41 · 13 answers · asked by Nancy T 1

2006-12-26 15:48:39 · 10 answers · asked by mr.aggressive 1

2006-12-26 15:46:39 · 15 answers · asked by Joy J 1

i'm thinking of getting my boyfriend a shark tooth necklace for his birthday. do you think he'll like it?

2006-12-26 15:46:14 · 12 answers · asked by <<mi.amor>> 1

ok so he is a little different from what i should be liking and he is somewhere between goth and skateboarder but mostly the skateboard type so he is in a different "group" then me but i like what i like and i am just attracted to long shaggy black hair, deep brown or blue eyes, tan skin, and the clothes they wear... my friends bag on me enough about how i dress they keep joking with me and saying im turning into a goth but all i wear are a couple of braclets....so should i give my friends a break since they already dont like the way i have been dressing and stay with my "own kind" or should i annoy the living crap out of them by taking a chance with this totally awesome guy that they hate????


please help me

Thanks A Lot for you help!
-PLshAw

2006-12-26 15:46:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy and I have been friends for almost seven years, close friends for at least three. But this last year we have hardly talked. He was in a relationship and was pretty much forbidden from talking to me. We saw each other the other night for really only the third time this year and ended up messing around a little bit. We didn't have sex. But we fooled around a little and he stayed with me the whole night. Now its been a few days and i haven't heard anything from him. And i'm starting to panic that our friendship is over. Is this a valid concern?

2006-12-26 15:45:40 · 14 answers · asked by running around lost 1

she talks to him in frint of me
she lies to me about talkin to him
she has a bf

2006-12-26 15:44:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-26 15:43:21 · 4 answers · asked by mekcit 1

I have a habit of being cold in the winter. I wear sweats/housepants and a sweatshirt to bed and usually around the house. In the summer I switch to pretty lingerie. Am I odd or is it really that unattractive that you would be done with me? I have a heated mattress pad and that is just a glimmer as to how much I don't like cold.....HELP! I am tired of getting crazy looks from guys when they find out I switch back and forth. Trust me I don't want to were lingerie in the winter if I could keep from it. I am just really thin skinned!

2006-12-26 15:43:20 · 13 answers · asked by Erin B 2

I haven't told my mom i am dating this guy...........and i feel it will be even harder to tell her he is black...is this weird? i know my mom and i know she'll judge....so how do i do it?

2006-12-26 15:42:50 · 8 answers · asked by Em 1

This guy I've been recently seeing--he's broached the gf/bf question and I suggested we give it a couple more weeks--says "I love you" a lot. He first said it when we were just friends. We've moved past that, and he says it on a daily basis now--whenever he says goodbye or else he'll just text me 'I love you' at random points in the middle of the day. I laugh it off because I don't believe he's known me long enough--we just met this year at freshman orientation--to be able to say that. But he's so sweet He used to hang out often with different girls on campus but lately he's just either with his guy friends or with me. When he's at parties or in clubs he's texting me half the night. I think he thinks he really loves me, but we're both barely out of high school. I'm still 17 and he just turned 18. I really like him and he's soooo so sure of us. He says he felt something the first time I looked his way. Is that even possible? (cont.)

2006-12-26 15:42:24 · 16 answers · asked by Pippa 2

If a man goes to a woman to become his sexual partner and have sex with him, she can reject him, and legally he has no recourse. This means that even an ugly woman should get more sex in her life than the average man. However, if he approaches more women, then they won't all reject him, assuming that he's decent-looking and at least mildly confident.

So by increasing the numbers of women that he approaches, he can have more partners than the average women, and only female porn stars and prostitutes will beat him in that regard.

The only thing is, it seems like in going through the necessary rejections to 'win', he still has to do more work than the women. So if he gets 900 rejections but 100 partners in his life, and the average woman has 8 partners in her whole life, does he win or does the average woman win, since she didn't have to do any work to get her 8 partners, and he had to do a whole lot to get his 100?

2006-12-26 15:42:12 · 13 answers · asked by electroberry1 3

This guy I've been recently seeing--he's broached the gf/bf question and I suggested we give it a couple more weeks--says "I love you" a lot. He first said it when we were just friends. We've moved past that, and he says it on a daily basis now--whenever he says goodbye or else he'll just text me 'I love you' at random points in the middle of the day. I laugh it off because I don't believe he's known me long enough--we just met this year at freshman orientation--to be able to say that. But he's so sweet He used to hang out often with different girls on campus but lately he's just either with his guy friends or with me. When he's at parties or in clubs he's texting me half the night. I think he thinks he really loves me, but we're both barely out of high school. I'm still 17 and he just turned 18. I really like him and he's soooo so sure of us. He says he felt something the first time I looked his way. Is that even possible? (cont.)

2006-12-26 15:42:11 · 7 answers · asked by Pippa 2

2006-12-26 15:40:58 · 8 answers · asked by hamstercutie95 1

Ok, there's this guy at school, and I have to admit, I kinda like him. But I'm wondering if he likes me, or just thinks Im easy (which I'm not) He's always telling me how pretty I am and how smart I am, and how much I make him laugh, and good I make him feel. He's always looking straight into my eyes, which really makes me drool. But he walways has to be touching me somehow, or some way. Either he's stroking my thighs, or get this, trying toslip his hands down my pants. (i know, I know, i alwys push him away. plus, its in the middle of class!) and he tries to kiss me.
But here's the kicker: he has a gilfriend. She told me herself that he never tried to do anything like that with her, I'm the only one. He totally ignores her when I'm around ( i feel bad about that though)
I'm asking. And please be honest.
Does he really genuinlly like me? or does he want a peice of @ss?
Or both?
Please answer me with honesty.
cuz he's kinda sending me mixed signals here..

2006-12-26 15:38:48 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Elle 1

I have only been on a handful of dates in my lifetime but I was recently introduced to a guy that is ridiculously appealing to me. He's handsome and extremely well manered--just hanging out with him turns me on like crazy. I try too keep my cool but at the end of our first date I kissed his cheek and gave him a hug since I was pretty sure he wouldn't kiss me. On the second I again gave him a hug and kissed his cheek, but I also told him I thought he was really cute, to which he replied that he thought I was too. Still no kiss. I was afraid that during the date I came off as uninterested so I really wanted to let him know how I felt as he is only in town for a few weeks. He said he would call but now I'm left wondering--could I have come on too strong? I don't know much about this whole dating thing but I really wanted to give him the "go ahead" and though he might just be too well-manered to try anything on me. Did I do something wrong? Is this something I should avoid doing?

2006-12-26 15:37:48 · 10 answers · asked by bluebutterfly081 1

what are u guys thinking when u like a girl and u want to ask her out?

2006-12-26 15:37:46 · 5 answers · asked by lovingangel1215 1

2006-12-26 15:36:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so there is this guy, and we've been hangin out, and hooking up for a few months now....at the beginning we decided that neither of us wanted a real relationship...so we're "special friends"....but now i care about him aaaallloooottt...and i want to make it an official relationship....how do i tell him this....we do things that boyfriend and girlfriend do....go out, talk on the phone, we see each other almost everyday...and he initiates the contact as often as i do...so do you think there is a chance he might be up for it????? and reallly....what do i say to him to let him know how i feel without scaring him away??? ok, i know we started out as "friends with benefits" but he acts more like my boyfriend and doesnt treat me like a booty call...he even went with me to my FAMILY christmas party, and wanted to go meet my dad....and i'm not sure(i've never been in this sort of relationship before) but i dont think that is a normal "friend with benefits" sort of behavior. Am i wrong?

2006-12-26 15:35:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I started daing about a year ago and we now live together and have a joint account together. But I feel like we dont make eachother happy any more. All we ever do is get irratated with eachother.

2006-12-26 15:34:20 · 8 answers · asked by Jeffrey M 1

2006-12-26 15:34:15 · 5 answers · asked by Brittney 1

Shes just a friend and knows that i'm married. Might it be that she's just asking me to call her later?

2006-12-26 15:32:58 · 4 answers · asked by George 1

last month. We had sex about two days ago for the first time while we were out of town (visiting my dad for the first time). Last night (when we returned) I called him to tell him goodnight and it wnt to voicemail (no biggy right). Well 24hours later and he still has not returned my call he simple sent a text telling me to 'sleep well'. His daughter arrived in town today, but I don't feel that is any excuse for being rude and not returning my phone. I am ready to drop him...is that too extreme for his rudeness????

2006-12-26 15:31:10 · 5 answers · asked by Divine_10 2

im having thoughts of breaking up w/ my boyfriend... to me we just seem like more friends then boyfriend & girlfriend...but he is a good guy and agood kisser...please help me...PLEASE

2006-12-26 15:29:42 · 29 answers · asked by cb_boo_bear 1

If the boyfriend is the most wonderful, considerate and special guy, but his family gets on your nerves because they are so loud and obnoxious, do you think the relationship stands a chance? Any advice on how to cope or handle being around his family?

2006-12-26 15:28:38 · 29 answers · asked by TPhi 5

When I waz in ATL, I waz at the mall, I saw the cutest boy ever! He waz light skin(African American), had the most beautiful eyes, and waz checkin me out. I went over, he smiled and said, " Wazzup lil mama?", I said," notin much sexi",he said ," Can I hit them seven digits?", I gave my number to him of course, then I called him, he waz busy, so that night at 11:20pm, he called, I waz writing somethin on the computer, when I heard the phone ring, I jumped up and ran to the phone to see who it waz, we talked all that night, getting to know each other, Ever since December 26, 2004, we have been together.

2006-12-26 15:28:34 · 13 answers · asked by sexi mama 1

I don't exactly why or how this came about but I really have a thing for older women

2006-12-26 15:28:06 · 21 answers · asked by norman d 2

so me and my girlfriend are goin to the movies on friday night...and i asked her if she wants to kiss. she said yes but how in the hell do you do it?

2006-12-26 15:26:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay it's this girl and i've known her for a year now and i'm afraid if i tell her i love her even though she has a boyfriend it might ruin our relaitonship as being friends what should i do?

2006-12-26 15:24:44 · 15 answers · asked by bigboy3466 1

there is this guy at school that i like a lot. we see eachother during passing period every day, but besides the awkward two second eye contact, and awkwardness when we're standing next to eachother with friends, we don't say anything to each other. i just became friends with some of his friends and have just started eating lunch with them and him. i think there might be a chance that he likes me, but then again... i dunno. lot's of girls at my school agree with me that he is really cute, but i'm not sure if i'm out of my leauge. i'm kinda a shy person, so it's not like me to just go up and tell him i like him. what can i do to see if he likes me or find out if he is interested without embarrasing myself?

2006-12-26 15:24:17 · 6 answers · asked by cal2bsd 2