there is this guy at school that i like a lot. we see eachother during passing period every day, but besides the awkward two second eye contact, and awkwardness when we're standing next to eachother with friends, we don't say anything to each other. i just became friends with some of his friends and have just started eating lunch with them and him. i think there might be a chance that he likes me, but then again... i dunno. lot's of girls at my school agree with me that he is really cute, but i'm not sure if i'm out of my leauge. i'm kinda a shy person, so it's not like me to just go up and tell him i like him. what can i do to see if he likes me or find out if he is interested without embarrasing myself?
2006-12-26 15:24:17 · 6 answers · asked by cal2bsd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
'leagues' are in your mind. i have hot girls into me and i never talk at all. you could have him, if you want to that is. make him do the talking
2006-12-26 15:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i say do something diffrent with you hair, or with your make up .If your the kinda person that wears and sticks to just one color buy something totally off the wall, and see if he says any thing. Find out what he likes and maybe you can talk about his likes to get things started. Ask him how his Christmas went and if he had a nice time, listen to what he has to say but dont stop there carry on the conversation and if he answer back each time and shows interest in the conversation, that could be a sign if his not that interested in you he will make his answers short and move on. Dont ever think you arent in ANYBODYS leauge, your just as good as everyone else. Play it cool its ok for him to know that you like him, but dont ask him out thats his job to ask you.
2006-12-26 23:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by Porcelain Doll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, try carrying on a conversation with the guy. Normally, you can tell if they're interested after that. Also, don't listen to what he says, watch his body language. Is he staring into your eyes? Then he's interested. Is he looking at your body? Then he thinks your hot. Is he standing facing you? Close to you? Are his hands in his pockets, his belt loops, or somehow pointed at his package? Then he's into you. Does he touch his hair while he's taling to you? He's instinctively grooming himself because he wants to look good for you. There are many more things to look for, but these should do the trick.
2006-12-26 23:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, one thing you dont do is tell a guy that u like him. i did that once and it only made him treat me differently. one thing u can do is ask his friends what type of things he looks for in a girl, and get to find out that way. these days, many guys are going for the shy girls. whatever u do though, do not make the 1st move on him. let him know you're there for him as a friend, and let him be the one to make a move on you 1st because that's when u know he's taken an interest in you.
2006-12-26 23:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to find out. You'll just have to find out for yourself and ask him.
2006-12-26 23:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just a man whore. But you can have fun with him, and he'll accept it.
2006-12-26 23:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋