im having thoughts of breaking up w/ my boyfriend... to me we just seem like more friends then boyfriend & girlfriend...but he is a good guy and agood kisser...please help me...PLEASE
2006-12-26 15:29:42 · 29 answers · asked by cb_boo_bear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Courtney,
If you are not feeling it, just break up with him. You need a man to make you feel like a women and not just your friend. You can't stay with someone just because they are a good kisser and a good guy. Remember there is always someone better out there then the one you got. Good luck.
2006-12-26 15:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he seems like just a friend do the right thing and break up now. If he is a good guy don't treat him like this, what would you say if he was only being with you because you kissed good, how would you feel to hear that. No one wants to be just a piece of meat. If you don't have any feelings for him beyond what you describe, let him go so he can find the girl who wants him for more than his lips.
2006-12-26 15:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. Do not stay with a guy just because
he kisses well. That's not fair to either of you. If the
magic isn't there then cut him lose as a boyfriend but
keep him as a friend. Don't be in a rush to have a guy
just for the sake of having a guy. It is okay to remain unattached until you are older and mature enough to
handle a relationship. For now just collect friends and
work on friendships.
2006-12-26 15:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the best boyfriend/girlfriend relationships are ones where they seem to be more friends than anything else and thay seem to be closer. That means that you two will probably get along better. Also, you get the good things of both types of relationships. I don't think you should break up with him.
2006-12-26 15:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you seem to be more like friends than a couple then maybe you should tell him how you feel. Just because he's a good guy and a good kisser just doesn't mean that he's boyfriend material.
2006-12-26 15:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is a tough one. Are you actually drawn to bad boys? If so, you might want to think about this. Have confidense in yourself that you deserve a good boyfriend. Don't be turned off by a guy just because he is nice. You don't want to get into the pattern that a few women do of "Why can't I find a nice guy." You have obviously found one.
2006-12-26 15:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Cas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a little more time. It it's a comfy situation, stick around and keep testing the waters. It could grow into something fun and special since friendship is a great foundation for being boyfriend nad girlfriend. Good luck!
2006-12-26 15:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by dolphin_chaysr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your heart isn't really in it, then you shouldn't be either.
Chances are that if you feel like you're better off just friends, it doesn't mean that you don't care about one another it just means that you're probably just not right for eachother.
Maybe you could try having an open relationship for a while and see how that works. That way, you're still techincally together but you can explore other options to see if he's really right for you.
2006-12-26 15:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is a good thing in a relationship but if you know that you like that person only as a friend and not any more than that it could be a problem, but if you want to stay together than find that one thing that makes you more than friends. Good luck
2006-12-26 15:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sonic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the same problem i am having but i don't know about that kissing part. Lol. but yeah i understand what you saying i think you should go head and tell him before the relationship get very deep and then it would be even more hard to break up with your boyfriend
2006-12-26 15:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by krazykia1p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋