This guy and I have been friends for almost seven years, close friends for at least three. But this last year we have hardly talked. He was in a relationship and was pretty much forbidden from talking to me. We saw each other the other night for really only the third time this year and ended up messing around a little bit. We didn't have sex. But we fooled around a little and he stayed with me the whole night. Now its been a few days and i haven't heard anything from him. And i'm starting to panic that our friendship is over. Is this a valid concern?
2006-12-26 15:45:40 · 14 answers · asked by running around lost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
something i should've mentioned: we're both single. so there was no cheating involved.
2006-12-26 15:53:09 · update #1
I wouldn't be too worried maybe you should just call him to see where y'all stand maybe he's feeling bad because he thinks that he's ruined a friendship and he's waiting for you to call him if you were friends before then you should be able to talk things out with each other just call him and see what the deal is. Good Luck!
2006-12-26 15:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does not sound like it....that is if her boyfriend did not place his penis inside her vagina. sometimes sperm will release before orgasm, (ie finish?) so even if he did not ejaculate, there is a very small chance there. If the penis went inside ....all that it takes is for the sperm to be released and travel to the eggs. Stress will delay periods, and food cravings happen anytime. Just get a pregancy test kit from the drug store and follow directions, if positive, then get it confirmed by a doctor. If she is not, and not wanting to BE pregnant, wise her up! Get protection. Go to Planned Parenthood and learn more about your sexuality, choices and protection against a non planned baby. Just by this question i can see both of you would learn much about sex if you studied about it before expereimenting. An unplanned baby can ruin a young life and the baby suffers too. Babys are wonderful but 24/7 work. Its best to live frist, establish a strong loving relationship with your mate and "plan" for the time when you both have time, money and the love to share with a young life. Planned Parenhood is a wonderful organization helping teens to learn about their sexuality and protection for unplanned births and diseases. The media carries stories about them as if they are cruel due to people choicing abortion, but they have helped millions to never get to that ugly choice! They have educated millions! And they will work with teens and young adults without their parents getting involved. It is your body and your life! Take care of it! You are precious! Be safe and wise!
2016-05-23 09:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you really really really are worried call him and talk about it. If you keep it bottled up then eventually it probably will lead to the end of your friendship , but if you talk about it then you will find out if you should take your friendship to the next level. Dont be worried though just call him.
-Chelsea :)
2006-12-26 15:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Chelsea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he felt really guilty for cheating on his girlfriend by fooling around with his best friend. It's hard to accept, but both of you were very immature. His guilt will probably result him not contacting you at all. You should be ashamed of yourself for seducing someone's boyfriend. Put yourself in her shoes, how would you feel? Shame on you! You deserve it!
2006-12-26 15:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that he realized he really had nothing for you or he realized how much he really does love his girlfriend. I really think you should call it quits. If you don't, you will most likely be hurt in the long run. I hope you make the right decision.
2006-12-26 15:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been friends for years, based on that call him and ask if everything is ok. As a friend he should be honest with you and as his friend you reserve the right to ask if you're concerned.
2006-12-26 15:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by maigirl131 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill out. he's probably home right now thinking the same things you are. Call him. set both your minds at ease.
2006-12-26 15:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must not respect you very much if he didnt call. i wouldnt pursue the friends with benefits thing you have going on. its not going to work.
2006-12-26 15:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i think he's probably just trying to work out his emotions. give him some time and let him come to you! =]
2006-12-26 15:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. But what I would do is call him, and make sure you two are still cool.....
2006-12-26 15:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋