Singles & Dating - 26 December 2006

It was great in the beginning, he was a wonderful guy. We were together 6 years. 2-1/2 years into the relationship I found out he was checking out singles on-line sites. But he said that he was not signing up just checking them out. Did n't like my adult children around his house unless it was a nice day so they could stay outside. In his eyes everything I did and said was wrong. Always talked about other women. But always told me he loved only me and that he would never stray. I couldn't take always being wrong in his eyes and that he always liked women. He once took a woman to lunch 4 times in 2 weeks and said it was business. He would make or receive phone calls and go outside to talk to them so I couldn't hear them. We are now split for 5 months, some days it is easy other days I just can't stop thinking about the good times we had. He could never say he was sorry if he said or did anything wrong, he would just blow it off. I just couldn't do it anymore. What more could I do.

2006-12-26 17:39:50 · 9 answers · asked by Nan of Many 2

2006-12-26 17:38:59 · 9 answers · asked by SECK'S 1

what do you do when you have this feeling for your exgirlfriend... this feeling where you think that you can spend the rest of your life with her?
what do you do when you would kill to protect her? Unfortunately i still feel this way about my ex who left me for another guy. I'm beginning to suspect that she is somewhat missing me... due to the fact that she sent me this email saying that after she comes back from san diego, she wants to see if we can meet up... this also includes the fact that her myspace photo has changed from her being with "joe" to a different one... i don't know what to do... every 5 minutes she pops into my head... and i just wanna break down..... there are so many things that make me think about her.... certain games, songs, movies, etc. ...i love her.... any advice on what i should do will be appreciated from everyone....

thank you... and i hope that all of you had a happy holiday...

2006-12-26 17:37:45 · 14 answers · asked by the sign 2

What age do u have to be to be able to purchase playboy magazines from stores, like borders for example.

2006-12-26 17:37:06 · 21 answers · asked by Vector 1

2006-12-26 17:36:05 · 8 answers · asked by Habeas 1

if a woman had an abortion, and she was physically attractive, would she still be attractive if you found out she had an abortion?

2006-12-26 17:30:08 · 35 answers · asked by Anna 2

your girlfriend/boyfriend of five years walked out? The reason was "I don't know", she refused the idea of you visiting starting two months before dumping you and started cutting normal phone conversation short from about an hour to 10 minutes(it was a semi-long distance relationship), and suddenly new guys were popping up that were, and I quote, "nothing to worry about" even though they make comments like "You've got a great rack" and it doesn't bother your partner that these are her new friends and that's how they talk to her. Anyway, your back story in this is you are very compassionate and sensitive to her needs, you trust her and don't worry about the new friends other than saying "Those other guys worry me, but I trust you", you've been there for her whenever she needed comforting or a self esteem boost. You both wanted to get married and you were going to buy the ring. Guys or Gals, what did you think. Ladies, if you did this..why? Were you hiding something?

2006-12-26 17:29:19 · 18 answers · asked by Che G 2

My boyfriend an dI have been together for like 7 months and we have had an up and down relationship. Lately it seems like we've been fighting more and more and when we hang out he seems distant. I know he wouldn't cheat on me, but it seems like he's bored. I do admit that sometimes I get jealous and yell at him, but he does the same to me. He was supposed to see me today and he didn't go, then he called later and said he'd visit me at work, again he didn't show. He hasn't called me. I feel like I always do things for him, but when it comes to him doing something for me, he doesn't, or he'll do it half way. Is it over?

2006-12-26 17:28:55 · 35 answers · asked by Brown eyes 2

This happend to me..i got a little offended that he told me that but then i played it off cool and flirted with him. I just said "well if i'm so bad, then teach me!" but the problem was the NEXT guy i made out with said the SAME thing. So i guess i'm doing SOMETHING wrong. hhmmm.. but then i made out with this mexican and i know i'm not a "good kisser" but i thought he was pretty dang good ((is that possible?)) and then he said i was one of the best kissers EVER!

oh yeah and don't think i'm a $lut or anything because all of this has happend over the past YEAR! ha ha!!

anyways...i thought m/o was simple. you kiss a couple times, open your mouth, move your tounge around his and then close your mouth and kiss him...??isn't that it?

GAWD I'M SO CONFUSED!! WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO DO?!?!

2006-12-26 17:28:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know alot of my gurlfriends tell me that their bfs call them sIuts when they drink and their not allowed to drink!! but they are!!(the guys)
My bf says the same thing to me too, it's dumb and gay. But they have it in their heads that thats what we are. Why?? Well some guys im not saying all but why?? i cant ask my bf cus he's stubborn and just says, cus u are.. yet we are not. Why why why

2006-12-26 17:27:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talking to this guy for a few months now. We have not really put a title on our relationship but to everyone eles we are together. He is the first guy I have really been with in about a year and a half. I know he cares alot about me cause of the way he acts. See the thing is I think I care way to much for him and I might even be in love with him. That scares me more then anything and I keep telling my self to back off, and basicly run away. I guess I just don't want to get hurt or be disapointed if I don't get the same. So I'm asking you if you were me would you take the chance of getting hurt or falling in love. Or would you just run away and never really know what it could have been.

2006-12-26 17:25:13 · 13 answers · asked by Lulu 1

i've been dating my boyfriend 3 yearhs. he went to vegas for christmas with his buddies, and they went to nighclubs there every night. i was there with my family too, and we got a chance to see each other for a few hours. he was all over me and really really sweet while i was with him. but he told me that he almost went with a girl becuase all the half-naked chicks in the clubs and the alcohol made him extremely horny. he said he didn't because he thought of me and he wanted to wait for me. he was really excited to see me. but still, what he said just bothers me so much, so i asked him what the hell was he thinking? i felt betrayed. am I wrong for feeling this way? He said i'm overreacting, and he said that he loves me, and all his friends think that he is gay because he never dirty dance with girls and everything. he said that he doesn't care about all that because he has me and loves me. I competely trusted him for 3 years straight, but after he told me this, i'm having doubts....

2006-12-26 17:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by Deesa 2

A guy broke my heart. We go back like 6 years, we hung out a lot back then and even fooled around a couple times, and I had a crush on him, then we lost contact. We got back into contact a couple months ago and started sleeping together right away. I just automatically thought we would become bf/gf when we started sleeping together. I guess because in the past all my r/ships started that way. So we are sleeping together, and I tried to bring our r/ship to the next level, but he keeps saying he just wants to keep it casual. It's breaking my heart, but I love him and I can't stay away!!! I keep getting mad at him, but then I apologize, and then I sleep with him again, and we're back where we started. I just can't stay away from him. He has some sort of hold on me. But every time he says he doesn't want a serious r/ship it seriously breaks my heart. I don't know what to do. I don't have the strength to stay away.

2006-12-26 17:22:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

in another city nearby and asked for money for gas to get them there promised to pay you back would you give them the money even tho they were strangers or what?? oh yea the daughter was in a car accident suddenly thats why the hospital

2006-12-26 17:22:32 · 12 answers · asked by marion r 3

ok your at the beach at the end of the pier thing to get from hotel to beach...anyway your about 15 and this girl prolly 17/18 walks up the pier from the beach and you say..whatsup just like sayin hey i guess and she smiles sorta and keeps on her way to hotel...well she comes back down a little bit later on the phone and you say whatsup and she smiles and laugs a little and stops at the end of the pier......does she want you to go talk to her or is she jsut talkin on the phone??

2006-12-26 17:22:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

and we are some how always in fight she dont give that attention i want...

2006-12-26 17:20:59 · 11 answers · asked by comluvmummuch c 1

2006-12-26 17:19:29 · 5 answers · asked by SECK'S 1

i mean he is the sweetest.He takes care of my kids when i need the help,since im a single parent.And he is there for me when i need him.But i always seem to push him away.Why?maybe fear mmm.I feel that there is no way that this guy can involve himself with someone that has kids already.For what.! he is so young he deserves so much more but i do like him alot though im so confused .

2006-12-26 17:17:03 · 9 answers · asked by marty 1

2006-12-26 17:16:00 · 9 answers · asked by orkmage 1

They are not humorous. It seems they do not know how to laugh at jokes. They never smile, in fact, come to think of it, I have never seen them give a genuine smile.

I also found out most can be mean when you get to know them.

2006-12-26 17:15:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

You see, most women don't like to admit this, thinking that someone will accuse them of being shallow.

2006-12-26 17:12:33 · 23 answers · asked by riptor1987 2

Me and my bf have been together for 2 years. He was picking me up from work, a coworker was talking to me and he got jelous Is there something wrong with that?

2006-12-26 17:12:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-26 17:10:38 · 42 answers · asked by SweetieBear20 2

Being at home with my family makes me seriously depressed. My dad hates my boyfriend, and does everything to me to practically ruin my life. I hate being at home.

Me and my boyfriend have been talking about moving in together, or even me moving into his house. His parents love me. How young is too young to live together? I love him very much.

2006-12-26 17:10:31 · 15 answers · asked by krimson.suicide 2

I have dated this guy for 3 yrs. & he has cheated on me 3 times(just kissing them) & he has been very controlling to me. I have always been faithful to him & I never broke up with him when he was bad to me. Just recently I met this guy and we have become extremely good friends! Just hanging out with each other and he really understands me and does so much for me! He has shown me in 3 days what I haven't had in 3 years. But I don't want to fall for him because we are best friends and I really do love this guy, but Im just really confused on what to do. Because now my boyfriend is starting to say I love you so much and I want you to do the things you love doing! Because he use to tell me that I can not go to the golf course when he was there or I couldn't go deer hunting...he was very jealous of everything too....Im just sooo confused and I do not know what to do...should I stick with my boyfriend or maybe try something new!?

2006-12-26 17:08:37 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa H 1

2006-12-26 17:07:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 26 he's 27. Weve been married for a year and some change. We had little squabbles here and there like normal couples, but for the past month hes been acting strange. When I try to talk to him I get dismissed or a terse response. Whenever he wants sex (a lot) I feel like I have to say yes. And sex isnt even fun anymore b/c hes so aggressive it verges on sadism. On Christmas day in a friends house I kinda embarrassed him (long story) but I made a semi public apology. When we got home he kept rehashing what happened. He pinned me against the wall and yelled at me like a child. I was so pissed, I made him sleep in the living room and gave him the silent treatment. Hes been trying to apologize but Im not having it. Anyway if things continue like this i know were headed for divorce. Ive tried talking to him but like I said he is so unresponsive. What should I do?

2006-12-26 17:07:01 · 8 answers · asked by lombardi_love 1

A guy I like takes days to respond to my online messages.

Well, first of all let me say that I emailed him first, and he did respond the very next day, but I was out of town and did not get his response until 2 weeks later. Ever since then he takes several days to reply back to me.
We are very flirty in the emails to one another.
The last message I sent him was before the holidays two weeks ago and I still have not heard from him.
Is this a sign he is not interested, or am I reading too much into it?

2006-12-26 17:06:11 · 14 answers · asked by Taffina_Girl 1

i no it has to do with like gettin girls but can anyone describe what it is...or give some examples of what you would use or somethin?/

2006-12-26 17:02:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-26 17:00:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous