Singles & Dating - 26 December 2006

The guy I have been dating for awhile now has the ability to make me feel the happiest I have ever felt in my life when I am with him. We are in a distance relationship, but I have a job lined up around where he lives in about a year.

The problem is when we are away from each other he forgets to call when he says he will and he recently disappeared for a month and reappeared without an explanation. This really hurt, so I am debating if he is a waste of time now. He always tells me he loves me and flies me out to see him, but basically, the time without him sucks and he is not helping matters, even after I have confronted the issue.

I just can't get over how happy I am when we are together though...no one has ever made me feel this way and I feel alive with him. I feel like our biggest problem right now is the distance, which I know is temporary.

Should I give up and and find someone that is dependable but doesn't necessarily make me feel this way, or should I wait it out?

2006-12-26 16:20:08 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2

I've found the perfect guy. I want to get to know him.

The problem is that he is SUPER shy, and has this girl after him already.

They known each other longer, really long. They are in the same grade, while as I just met him.

We are hanging out a lot though. And I'm going ice skating with him tommorow i hope everything works out.

The problem is she likes him, and she's trying to get with him

My good guy friend told me that he told him (the perfect guy)
that the guy wants to ask the girl who is chasing him to prom..

i dont know..maybe that's because he doesnt know me YET?

ideas? help?

2006-12-26 16:19:39 · 10 answers · asked by sam3345 1

2006-12-26 16:19:38 · 12 answers · asked by Jack S 5

My ex broke up with me, and I wanted to know, after a guy breaks up with his gf or vice versa, would he steel have feelings for her? Or do they not care at all... why don't they ever come strait out and admit to their ex girlfriends that they still like them?

2006-12-26 16:18:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i been without him since october..i miss him so much and i dont tlak to him anymore..i want him back so badly how do i get him back??

2006-12-26 16:17:22 · 8 answers · asked by GDsoccer3 1

She's 3000 miles away and we talk all the time. That's all good but I need to feel some touch!

2006-12-26 16:16:27 · 12 answers · asked by BRAINS! 5

I love my boyfriend and he loves me. theres one thing that I'm trying to help him with though. he used to watch porn and "play around" with himself all the time. he stoped for me. but occasionally when he gets really horny he break and wacks off. he tells me about it and hates to do it. but when he gets horny and starts to he can't stop. he feels terrible about it and desperatly wants to stop, how can i help him stop all together?

2006-12-26 16:15:49 · 27 answers · asked by liz 1

i mean i would feel real guilty doing it and it wouldn't be pretty for me because i made or help her break a promisto God.

2006-12-26 16:14:39 · 17 answers · asked by Phillip kingdom 1

Ok I play a lot of online games and so i meet lots of people, I get to know a lot of older guys (older as in 16, 17, 18 maybe 19 year olds) and theres only one guy i like my age. My friends think im crazy for likeing older guys but i hang out with them more! i went out with a 16 and 17 year old and im 13 they didnt mind my age (no i never gave them an address or anything) but its because no guys i like dont like me. So, friends say i need help is it really that much of a problem?

2006-12-26 16:14:01 · 13 answers · asked by amandacupcake 2

2006-12-26 16:10:57 · 46 answers · asked by shane 1

i am in 7th grade and i like this guy in 8th grade and i want him to notice me but not blow my cover or sould i tell him and see what happens. the guy is friendly he is friends with my friend.

2006-12-26 16:09:27 · 11 answers · asked by dallas_cowboys231 1

piano, sax, violin... etc...

2006-12-26 16:07:42 · 11 answers · asked by live*laugh*love 4

What makes for a fantasatic date? Is it the person? the place? something else?

2006-12-26 16:07:28 · 6 answers · asked by fdm215 7

2006-12-26 16:07:16 · 16 answers · asked by violet83 2

Shes just a friend and knows that i'm married. Might it be that she's just asking me to call her later? Or how should i reply back? I think its a flirt thing. girls?

2006-12-26 16:05:08 · 13 answers · asked by George 1

How long can you stay a viergin and not be considered a loser. Even if you are saving your self for marriage or something what is the oldest age for a guy to still be a virgin and what age for a girl?

2006-12-26 16:04:56 · 42 answers · asked by evilive 4

2006-12-26 16:04:08 · 22 answers · asked by Miguel B 1

2006-12-26 16:03:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend told me that he loved it that i was feisty....didn't know if any other guys were like that.

2006-12-26 16:02:55 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5

do guys like natural looking girls on the first date?
natural make up?
or no make up?

2006-12-26 16:02:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I signed up on a dating site and as best as I try to have only 1 contact I am corresponding with, it does not work. Sometimes I do not get a response to contacts I request, and I am contacted by someone else, which I accept , and then the original contact I sent is accepted.
Other times I get quite a few contact requests , all of which seem good and there seems to be now way to distinguish them on paper at least. What is the proper thing to do in these situations- is writing to multiple people equivalent to dating multiple people at the same time ?

2006-12-26 16:02:32 · 5 answers · asked by prizmaweb 2

Hi people, I am trying to get some advice. This Halloween I had a bad fight with my ex (then my bf), I wasn't happy with the way he was treating me. We broke up, I said maybe we should be friends, he said he was sick of having a crying gf, then we got back together a week later, he called and we agreed to be ok. Then, a week ago, he dumped me saying getting back was a mistake, that he needs to be on his own and doesn't feel the same way about the relationship, I understand but it was completely unexpected. He had been telling me how I am an awesome person days before, took me to the park and cooked my favorite food the day he dumped me. I was hurt so I said some mean things. Now ( a week later), I feel better, I know I was unhappy in the relationship too, but I can never dump people. I feel like telling him I don't hate him but is it too soon?? Maybe I need to give it some more time so we can both move on? we dated for 2 yrs and a half.
I appreciate your opinions

2006-12-26 16:00:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

So this guy liked me and my friend. Asked us to hang with him. Probably only wanted one of us to come. We though he should be a man and decide who he wants,so we left it up to him. He did not want to split up two friends so he never called to make the plan final.
BUT he is going into the same field as me, and is REALLY working very well towards his goal. I need to get involved with volunteering like him, but I don't know where to start. Volunteering sites do not list all the major community events he has himself involved in.

SO....I really need help getting started, is it wrong of me to contact him and ask him to help steer me in the right direction? I would not use him, all I need is help finding out how he gets these volunteer positions that are never listed anywhere!

2006-12-26 15:59:48 · 12 answers · asked by MindyCindyLindy 2

ok well here's the background i suppose... I've been dating this guy named andrew and hes great, really, but our spark has just...gone out...and i've tried talking to him but then....i caught sight of someone else, and i've tried suppressing my feelings but nothing has worked. We've kissed and we both, I think, have at least some feelings for each other. But he has strong feelings for this other girl, but she's in a bad relationship and is like the mother to her boyfriend's child,...its not her child, but she's the only mother that kid has ever known...so he and i are great friends, but i want him to just realize that i'm the better choice, which in reality i am. Shes risky bussiness and has basically chosen that child over him. But on the other hand my heart hasn't let go of andrew and i know he'll keep trying till the day i die...help...I love andrew ,and ronnie...but ronnie loves mareena and i wish shakspeere would just write a play about my life...ha...

thanks for your time.

2006-12-26 15:58:15 · 6 answers · asked by sara 1

2006-12-26 15:56:33 · 16 answers · asked by krissy 5

Dont think im weird but me and my ex girl have a very complex relationship, I know she checks my myspace, we both want each other back , but i cant be the one to go back first , not this time, so what kind of stuff can i put on my myspace to show her i want her back and get her talking to me again, I want her to iniate any possible conversation.

2006-12-26 15:55:00 · 20 answers · asked by book searcher 1

me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now. he and this girl are always together and it seems like they flirt all the tim! should i be worried? could he be cheating on me?

2006-12-26 15:53:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-26 15:51:11 · 12 answers · asked by bipolargandolf 2

the single one is freshly on the market, the other wants to be but has a child involved and tells me "don't give up on me" i like both but both have issues how do i chose?or could the one in a relationship be "playin" me. maybe leave the both of them alone? so confussed and so ready to find the one. tired of playing games......

2006-12-26 15:51:10 · 3 answers · asked by confused 2

2006-12-26 15:49:03 · 16 answers · asked by mekcit 1