ok well here's the background i suppose... I've been dating this guy named andrew and hes great, really, but our spark has just...gone out...and i've tried talking to him but then....i caught sight of someone else, and i've tried suppressing my feelings but nothing has worked. We've kissed and we both, I think, have at least some feelings for each other. But he has strong feelings for this other girl, but she's in a bad relationship and is like the mother to her boyfriend's child,...its not her child, but she's the only mother that kid has ever known...so he and i are great friends, but i want him to just realize that i'm the better choice, which in reality i am. Shes risky bussiness and has basically chosen that child over him. But on the other hand my heart hasn't let go of andrew and i know he'll keep trying till the day i die...help...I love andrew ,and ronnie...but ronnie loves mareena and i wish shakspeere would just write a play about my life...ha...
thanks for your time.
2006-12-26 15:58:15 · 6 answers · asked by sara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not trying to drag andrew on, he keeps trying to win me back, i have broken up with him, i mean i can't make him stop trying. Nor do i want to hurt him. I HAVE choosen Ronnie..but HE hasn't 'choosen' between me and mareena, i wish love didnt have ot be this dramatic, so if you're just going to leave comments like that then you're not truely trying ot help...i posted this to basically ask, how on earth can i make ronnie open up and give me a better chance.
2006-12-26 16:13:37 · update #1
Wow sounds like that German 80's pop song....Johnny loves Jenny, but Jenny loves Joe, and Joe loves penny but she loves Moe...
2006-12-26 16:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Porcelain Doll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you like to be with someone who OBVIOUSLY don't love you? that Ronnie guy is only using you, use you upper head and think that if he really wanted to be with you and you alone, he would have let go of Moreena, and about Andrew, have some compassion for the poor guy, let him go for good, even if he keeps trying to get back to you.
2006-12-27 00:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
should love really have this much drama? and do you REALLY think its a good idea keeping one guy around while you dream of another? maybe you should be single for a while to decide what you REALLY want in a man.
2006-12-27 00:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by carolynnnna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to move on.
2006-12-27 00:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by K G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a breath and re-explain your situation, because you're not making a whole lot fo sense.
2006-12-27 00:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Alberta Sunrise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him point blank how you feel then sit back and see where it goes--
2006-12-27 00:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋