So this guy liked me and my friend. Asked us to hang with him. Probably only wanted one of us to come. We though he should be a man and decide who he wants,so we left it up to him. He did not want to split up two friends so he never called to make the plan final.
BUT he is going into the same field as me, and is REALLY working very well towards his goal. I need to get involved with volunteering like him, but I don't know where to start. Volunteering sites do not list all the major community events he has himself involved in.
SO....I really need help getting started, is it wrong of me to contact him and ask him to help steer me in the right direction? I would not use him, all I need is help finding out how he gets these volunteer positions that are never listed anywhere!
2006-12-26 15:59:48 · 12 answers · asked by MindyCindyLindy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Don't call him. Open the phone book instead.
2006-12-26 16:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its not wrong! If you make it clear that you just want the information and your very polite about it there shouldn't be a problem. If you friend gets mad at you for it or anything then that's her problem, this is your career and future and you need to think about that.
2006-12-27 00:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by babylovesu06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say its fine to ask him for volunteer positions and to keep it low key. Sounds like he has some integrity by not finalizing a date with you and your friend. Brownie points in my book. Just keep it simple and consider him a acquaintance. There are plenty of other mermen in the sea. :-)
2006-12-27 01:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by nakedshark34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making a big deal about nothing. You can call him or not. So call him or not, and then forget about it. People are dying in wars all over the world, for crying out loud!
2006-12-27 00:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask for advice.
If you don't want any more than advice, TELL HIM.
If you want more, ask him out, it is the 21st century after all.
2006-12-27 00:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and ask him, if he is a true man he will gladly help you out. If he wont help you, then at least you tried.
2006-12-27 00:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fair for you to ask him.
2006-12-27 00:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by twicewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE FORM A FRIENDSHIP WITH HIM FIRST AND THEN TAKE THINGS FROM THERE!
2006-12-27 00:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-27 00:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by BRAINY SKEETA ® 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-27 00:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋