me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now. he and this girl are always together and it seems like they flirt all the tim! should i be worried? could he be cheating on me?
2006-12-26 15:53:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, i mean when im not with him him and this girl are together! he is always on the phone with her, and they work together! i have talked to him and he says nothing is going on! what do you think?
2006-12-26 15:58:15 · update #1
What do you mean by flirt and how old is the girl and do her parents approve. It depends on the age of the girl whether it is a petaphile relationship or he is cheating on you, or the girl is a teen that just needs a father figure. Too much hugging, or hanging on him, would make me wonder. But i was sexually abused, so you see...
2006-12-26 15:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets not dismiss the obvious...Sounds like Dr. Phil. The first thing you need to do if you haven't done this already is confront him in a diplomatic manner. Since I don't know the whole story I can only presume that this girl is either a co-worker, an old friend or mutual acquaintance. My answer would be yes, he could be cheating on you. It would not be hard to figure out if you know him well enough. Some tell tall signs would be breaking dates, having to take care of some problem that has arisen, answering his phone and walking away from listening distance, making excuses, screening his calls, etc. Another question you need to ask yourself, is how did you originally meet him? Do you see parallels to this relationship he has with this girl when you first met him? If he is cheating, some good advice is to do what makes you happy.
2006-12-26 16:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by JAY S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried. Even if nothing has happenned between them it sounds like he is hoping that something will. The real question is is this girl hott. If he gets along with her so well that they hang out all the time and she's not bad looking, why wouldn't he be interested?
2006-12-26 18:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be, but if he and this girl are always together with you maybe not, just tell him it makes you uncomfortable and see what his reaction is if he respects you he will do something to rectify the situation
2006-12-26 15:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by atablackbelt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say always together. does that mean you're never with him? or when you're not with him? either one, that's not good, I'd talk to him. if he's not cheating on you, then you need to tell the other girl to back off, as well as your bf! good luck~
2006-12-26 15:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont kno if hes cheating but it definatly sounds like a situation i just helped a friend w/ the other day. sorry to say this but he is either best buds and if they have a bro/sis realtionship, its just natural nothing to worry bout, but if its not, he might be missin something w/ you so he finds it w/ her, like he doesnt connect w/ u, so he goes to her cause she 'better understands him' . he might not be cheating physically, but emotionally yea he prob is. and emotionally sooner or later runs to physically. im sorry to say it, but its not a good sign. try and work it out, but dont beat yourself up. good luck much love-matt
2006-12-26 16:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by Hock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have they been friends before you? If so, there's nothing to be worried about because he chose you. If they just met, I would be asking him questions.
2006-12-26 15:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt blame you for being worried. I would be to. Just try to talk to him about it and let him know that you're uncomfortable about it. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-26 15:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by [.dreamer.] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to believe in variety.
Dump him quickly.
2006-12-26 15:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋