i mean i would feel real guilty doing it and it wouldn't be pretty for me because i made or help her break a promisto God.
2006-12-26 16:14:39 · 17 answers · asked by Phillip kingdom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your girl made a promise to god not to have sex and you do it to her that would be rape because you have fourced her so respect her commitment and leave her alone if you love her you will
2006-12-26 16:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by flossypants 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It depends on how you define marriage! Is it just a set of rituals ? If in your heart you are already married,are truly for each other,and will be that way no matter what, then how do the rituals matter ?
At the same time your girl should not feel pressured. Its a delicate trade off between your desire and long term impact on the relationship as respect for the other persons views is important. you may gain more in the long run by losing out now! But you may try the logic I gave above and see how she reacts. you cant pressure a person, but maybe make them think differently.
2006-12-26 16:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by prizmaweb 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No because she have made a promise to God just wait
2006-12-26 16:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by krazykia1p 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you shouldn't. God asks that you wait until you are married. And what if something goes wrong? what if you get her pregnant? you gotta think about these things. Plus, sex is like a symbol about the significance of marriage and the love you two share.
2006-12-26 16:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by christi t 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I will answer this a bit differently..... but with the same outcome..... It doesn't matter to who your girlfriend has made a vow not to have premarital sex.... whether it was God, her mother, herself, her pet dog..... the fact is that she doesn't want to have sex before she is married and you should respect her decision.
2006-12-26 16:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As others have said, don't do it --- especially if she's promised to wait until marriage. If you wait to have sex until after you're married, it'll be even more special and you won't have to feel guilty about it.
2006-12-26 16:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it. She'll never forgive you. My husband and I waited until we were married to have sex, and it was really, really difficult, but it was also worth it. She will adore you and respect you and love you even more for respecting her promise to God.
2006-12-26 16:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should be proud of your girlfriend for making such a promise to God, and help her hold to that promise. if you cause her to break the promise, it is almost guaranteed that your relationship will go no farther, and eventually you won't have her, and she will have no self respect.
2006-12-26 16:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to respect her as well as her promise to God, so don't do it.
2006-12-26 16:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do that? If you MAKE her do it against her will, she could scream rape, whether you thought she "wanted it" or not. Her word against yours, especially if it's common knowledge that she plans to wait until marriage!
2006-12-26 16:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋