Ok I play a lot of online games and so i meet lots of people, I get to know a lot of older guys (older as in 16, 17, 18 maybe 19 year olds) and theres only one guy i like my age. My friends think im crazy for likeing older guys but i hang out with them more! i went out with a 16 and 17 year old and im 13 they didnt mind my age (no i never gave them an address or anything) but its because no guys i like dont like me. So, friends say i need help is it really that much of a problem?
2006-12-26 16:14:01 · 13 answers · asked by amandacupcake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion, and I need to be honest, if a guy is 17 and older, you tell them you are 13 and they don't mind, they are losers and probably not good (when you hit 17 you will understand), stay away please, never give away any personal information, listen to your friends, it is no joke.
2006-12-26 16:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number but you are young. Just slow down so you don't get hurt yourself. Watch dateline NBC for the creeps that meet 13 yr old online who say they are 16-18 and turn out to be 24-27, regardless if you give them an address. Truthfully, do you want to lose your virginity by a someone who is going to force you to have sex? Be careful
2006-12-26 16:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by me_myself 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's reallllly not a good idea to date guys and stuff over the internets, but in real life, sure it's okay to hangout with older guys, but if you're 13 you shouldn't date guys over age 16. I'm 14 and I won't date guys over 16 because they're generally a bit more experienced and it can make you feel uncomfortable, so the relationship won't last long.
It's okay to flirt with older guys, but it's not always a good idea to date them unless you really trust them and know them well. :]
2006-12-26 16:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is a problem. When you are older, you will be ashamed that you were so naive to think that it isn't. Hon, 16 & 17 year-olds will try to rid you of your innocence. You need to listen to your friends. Stay away from them. You are risking your life. I am not kidding, you are PUTTING YOUR LIFE AT RISK. If you keep doing this, you will very likely be raped and you know, quite a few rapes are by more people than just one, hon. Also, you could get HIV and die. Quit being careless with your life!!! What a shame...
2006-12-26 16:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry kid, thats kinda dangerous, thats how you get rapped and stalked. id back off the interent, go meet people at bowlin and stuff or meet ppl at the mall or whatever, trust me its dangerous dont make the mistake a lot of ppl have made, dont live in a cyber world, back out and live your life in the real world. plus your 13 hangin out w/ 16-19 yr olds, babe all they want is to have sex and thats creepy. your 13 u dont need that yet, listen to lyfe jennings hes the man. trust me your 13 your supposed to be into puttin on makeup and goin to the mall and getti in my way at the cinabon, not galavantin around w/ a guy u met on the internet who wants to do something tight. come on now! use your head, get off the net for like a month and see whats out there, seriously its a problem
2006-12-26 16:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Hock 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's a bad thing.
Years from now three or four year difference in age won't mean anything to you. Right now it does. You're too young for them, They're too old for you, however you want to say it. Be 13 and hang out with other 13 year olds!
2006-12-26 16:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Paul 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't really like guys my age either... granted i'm sixteen. You just have to be careful that they aren't like creepers and are just trying to take advantage of a pre-teen. I wouldn't go with 16 and up... try to stick with the 14 and 15 year olds for now.
2006-12-26 16:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say no just as long as your careful you know. and maybe not rush into things. trust me im pretty sure though that theres a guy your age waiting for you to notice him but you dont. basically just follow your heart and you'll know from time and experience whether who you date is right or wrong
2006-12-26 16:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by SunshineShortie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only 13, what on earth do these older guys want to hang around a child for ????
2006-12-26 16:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
17 is too old for you. what would u do once he turned 18? he'd pretty much be a pedifile.
2006-12-26 16:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by Annie Rod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋