I've been talking to this guy for a few months now. We have not really put a title on our relationship but to everyone eles we are together. He is the first guy I have really been with in about a year and a half. I know he cares alot about me cause of the way he acts. See the thing is I think I care way to much for him and I might even be in love with him. That scares me more then anything and I keep telling my self to back off, and basicly run away. I guess I just don't want to get hurt or be disapointed if I don't get the same. So I'm asking you if you were me would you take the chance of getting hurt or falling in love. Or would you just run away and never really know what it could have been.
2006-12-26 17:25:13 · 13 answers · asked by Lulu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only failure are those who dare not try. Yes it may fail, it may fail the next 10 out of 11 times, but yoiu can't just "settle" for what you find, you need to find the person you are happy with and want to spend the rest of your life with, and if you loose this one because you were afraid of getting hurt, you will regret it the rest of your life! Take it slow and easy, but try!
2006-12-26 17:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey the anwser to your question is this,you cant keep running all of your life i know its hard when youve been hurt before beleive me i do but you have to learn to be strong again and give yourself a chance and also that speacial someone out there a chance to ok,the best way to do this is go out a couple of times and see were it go's from there and always remember these words ok you are a human being as well as anybody else and dont ever have to let nobody hurt you ok ,because if you dont like the way somebody treats you just leave them and have nothing else to do with them ok,because if someone truly cares about you they will not hurt you they will only show you that they care for you and want to be with you ok,well thats all that i can tell you exceptt for i hope you make the right choice and may god bless you
2006-12-27 01:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by DAVE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I was in this SAME situation about a year ago. I, however, broke it off, and its never really been the same. I say, shoot, you only get to live your life once, so why not take chances. If it doesn't work out, sure, you'll be broken, but at least you'll never regret anything.
2006-12-27 01:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by asksaphron 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't always run away. You're going to find out this will probably happen with alot of relationships. No one likes to get hurt, but you learn from one experience to another and one day you'll find the right one..
2006-12-27 01:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you run away you will never know if it is love or hurt. Go into this with the thought of having fun...
2006-12-27 01:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to know that you're on the same level with things.
if you really no basically enough of his background and history on girls and it's not bad then go for it.
or just stick to be Friends if your too afraid because some people can be edgie.
let him know because things can happen you never know unless you ask.
go for it life is to short to be mucking around live everyday together and live it to the ultimate limit.
2006-12-27 01:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Millie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running away from a potentially fulfilling relationship is self-defeating behavior. Stay with it and see what develops.
2006-12-27 01:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by jom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the chance. You will be wondering what it could have been for the rest of your life.
2006-12-27 01:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you run away now, you'll always ask yourself "what if" what if he was the right dude, what if he wasn't going to break my heart, what if he turned out to be "the one". you'll regret it if you leave. its better to no how it will turn out and have a broken heart, then not no how it ends up and regreting it. if you give him a chance, i think it will turn out to be good.
2006-12-27 01:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the chance. dont' overthink love.
2006-12-27 01:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by electroberry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋