My girlfriend and I started daing about a year ago and we now live together and have a joint account together. But I feel like we dont make eachother happy any more. All we ever do is get irratated with eachother.
2006-12-26 15:34:20 · 8 answers · asked by Jeffrey M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. That's why there's divorce, separations and breakups. But it's not unthink of to be irritated with each other.
Doesn't your own family irritate you? But don't you also love them? different strokes for different folks. Take the good and you take the bad and there you have...the facts of life.
In the end, do you still love them even though you argue. Do you count on her to be there when life gets rough? Would she bring you soup when you are sick? Make you laugh when you are depressed? if not then you two need to talk.
2006-12-26 15:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a married couple. But you're not and no kids. Doesn't sound good. Time to split and meet some new chicks. Oh well, that's what's so cool about living together before marriage. if it doesn't work - you can split. Don't stay together just because it's convenient. don't stay together until one of you meets someone else. Do it now before anyone gets hurt. You can still date each other, but might be better to make a clean break.
2006-12-26 15:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens to alot of couples... when they dont live with eachother, they are perfect and so deep in love, but then when they live together.... they spend to much time with eachother and just get annoyed.... maybe you two would do better if you spent a little more time away from eachother..... i mean come one, you guys have been dating ONE year, and now live together, and share an account???.... thats pretty quick if you ask me.
good luck to you tho =]
2006-12-26 15:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by =] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down together and discuss it,as it involves both of you.See if she feels the same and talk about what you can do to make things better, otherwise get out now before there are children involved
2006-12-26 15:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your last name Mueller? I know a guy named Jeff thats in this exact situation!! You probably jumped the gun on the move in and shared $$ and are feeling fenced in. Its a big commitment to live with someone and share everything....re-think it.
2006-12-26 15:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by Stevi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because you have become wat seems is one
you both arent the people you once were when you met eachother at first. being around people too long like that changes people to how they want to be happy and they become almost the same person and get irritated with "themselves"
2006-12-26 15:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by Matt Koz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going through the same thing. I think it's pretty normal, espeially if your on the rebound.
2006-12-26 15:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. I guess you can fall out of love just as confused and easily as falling into it.
2006-12-26 15:37:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋