Do you think I should'nt go after older girls in 12th grade and who have graduated when I am in the 9th?

Question

I don't exactly why or how this came about but I really have a thing for older women

Answer 1

Oh boy, Norman baby, you are going to have so much fun with an older girl who likes boys your age.

Answer 2

Dunno. My wife is 5 years older than me, I got married when I was about 21. She was older and divorced. My mother was not happy at all.
That means when she was a senior in high school I was in 7th grade. *Shiver* We didn't go to the same school, though, we met while I was in college.
Now at the age of 41, I wouldn't recommend it, pal. When you're 20 she'll be 24 and wanting marriage, kids, the whole 9 yards. I gave up my chance to be a socially active young man, and spent my early 20's struggling to feed a family. I didn't have a clue what I was getting into. She'll strap all kinds of responsibility on you, pal. At this point in life, as I look back on it, I think all men should marry a woman 5 to 10 years younger. The man can then give the woman the things she wants and needs - he doesn't have the resources to do it when he's young.
Honestly, at this stage in life, when my kids are out of the house and I won't have to pay child support I will probably "trade her in for a newer model". Best of luck....

Answer 3

These girls are probably going off to college, they will most likely forget about you once they are there. Every guy I dated from home I lost contact with after I graduated high school. Ontop of that, you won't have much in common with these girls at all. When they are 21 and in the bars, you're going to be stuck at the teen clubs still.. not exactly something a girl wants to tell her friends about. So to make this easy, dating girls your own age is going to work out best for you.

Answer 4

Once you are 18, you can go after any woman older than you are. Otherwise, there are some legal issues since you are more than 1-2 years younger.

Answer 5

do no longer date her, in basic terms dangle out along with her. It relies upon on what you type as a date particularly, i do no longer think of that going out to 'a place' is a date till it is composed of a undeniable degree of intimacy. in case you're taking her to a wine bar and take a seat in a sales area or something like that then i think of you would be pushing your success slightly, yet once you maintain it harmless, ideally excellent out till now 6pm-ish, then it particularly is going to be ok. do no longer date her, i'm no longer encouraging you to try this, yet whilst stuff does take place, enable her start up it thoroughly: no one likes a punch in the face.

Answer 6

I think you should. I do it too. I'm in the 10th grade and I go after graduates and freshmen in college. I think that old/young relationships are hot. Except in bed when you're not up to expectations. That's why I quit dating younger men. Just be careful becuz I been through it too.

Answer 7

when you are 22 and want an older woman of 40...you can get her.

but being in 9th grade....any woman older than you right now will just look at your and laugh and say....awww...isn't that a cute little boy. you are a child to them.

plus older women around your age right now are interested in older men, not younger men.

Answer 8

Least you can do is try. The worst is nothing at all. Then you'll spend your whole life wondering "what if". My brother's marrying a girl that's almost 10 years older. It can work out!

Answer 9

You need to worry about school, not females. Older women like men who are intelligent and capable. You'll get that from an education.

Answer 10

Older girls are ok but lets face it they have more experience in the game than you do. I would try dating maby a little more mature girls your own age older girls are trouble. Plus they are more experienced than you be careful.