ok so he is a little different from what i should be liking and he is somewhere between goth and skateboarder but mostly the skateboard type so he is in a different "group" then me but i like what i like and i am just attracted to long shaggy black hair, deep brown or blue eyes, tan skin, and the clothes they wear... my friends bag on me enough about how i dress they keep joking with me and saying im turning into a goth but all i wear are a couple of braclets....so should i give my friends a break since they already dont like the way i have been dressing and stay with my "own kind" or should i annoy the living crap out of them by taking a chance with this totally awesome guy that they hate????
please help me
Thanks A Lot for you help!
-PLshAw
2006-12-26 15:46:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If u feel that you like him that bad then do it. Sometimes your friends can be right but, if u still have that feeling for him like that then I would do it. Your friends are not going to like every guy that u talk to and that can be a good thing because that way they wont a have crush on him or anything like that. If you are attracted to someone and they are like taboo to other people it makes you want them even worse so you might as well get it out of your system now. LOL! I'm going to say this and I dont mean any offense to any one white. Its like when white fathers try their best to keep their daughters away from those black boys, but they can only keep them away for so long. Then when they go to college that's all they can think about is going with a black dude. If only their parents let them talk to them. So anytime someone is like don't do that you always want to see what its like. SO MY ANSWER is yES DEFINITELY go with him if he treats you right and cares about u and ur feelings!!! Hope this helps!
2006-12-27 03:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by sultryscorpio_pgi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are acting REALLY immature. They are judging your guy by his style of DRESS? There is so much more to people than what they wear. If your friends don't realize that, they are pretty much a waste of your time. Obviously, you see that there is something about this guy that goes beyond his shaggy hair and goth style of dress. If your friends were to grow up enough to get to know him, they'd be able to see it too.
2006-12-26 15:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what my friend "katia" have gone to that stage before. this is how she fixed that problem. she tried two different things.
First: She told the guy to try to be more sympathetic not only around her friends, well us, but also with other people.
and
Secondly: Try to ask them why they don't liek you so much. It helps a lot.
But there is also one thing i told her that worked out for her. And that is not to care what her friends will say about either you or that guy. Listen to me, people will always talk about you and the good and bad decisions you make even if yo are dead. The best thing yo can do is to ignore those comments and FOLLOW YOUR HEART. It worked for her, me and most of the people i know.
2006-12-26 15:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by im_your_boss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friends shouldnt make fun of you for wearing braclets or black clothing. friends are friends, and they arent being very good ones if they arent happy about you finding a nice guy.
clothes and eyes and hair? what about his personality? if he is a great guy, I say go for it. I know being seen with him in public can kinda give you the "heebie jeebies" at first because people stare and your friends wont walk with you around school with him, but you'll adjust easily.
take the chance. itll only come once, ya know.
2006-12-26 15:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it and if they were your true friends they would support your decision and if not then so what u should not let what your friends think stop u from dating a guy who could be just what u always wanted. Good luck and happy new year
2006-12-26 15:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be completely honest, your friends shouldn't tell you to who to like and who to dislike. They need to accept who you are and what you like or maybe there not the best friends to have. Then again you shouldn't be looking at it as "annoy the living crap out of them" Because if that's what your concerned with then maybe this guy isn't for you. If you like him, go for it. Don't do it just to annoy your friends.
2006-12-26 15:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by FragileClichex0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first saw you question, I thought maybe your friends hated him because he treats you badly or does drugs. But now I know they hate him because of the way he dresses, so I think you should date him if you really want to. Your friends sound very shallow, and maybe they're not the kind of people whose opinions matter to you anymore.
2006-12-26 15:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want, in love as well as in dress. Your friends sound like they badly need someone to disregard this silly noise they're making. You will be pleasing yourself and discouraging them from acting like tyrants and b*tches, two very good things. I say go for him.
2006-12-26 15:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by silver.graph 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, that's all that matters. But seriously honey, I wouldn't change just because of a boy that I like. Seriously, don't change yourself for a guy, if you like him ,and he likes you the way you are, why change? (unless you like the way you're dressing better than before) and as far as your friends, their not that great of friends if their dissing you about your style changes. If he makes you happy, go for it, maybe your friends just don't understand.
2006-12-26 15:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Elle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to objective to sparkling up the reason they're struggling with and attempt to cause them to no longer hate one yet another as lots. in the event that they shop persevering with to combat and you do no longer choose for to choose on sides in basic terms stroll away and carry out with another people for the day and notice what's going to happen.
2016-10-19 00:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋