Ok, there's this guy at school, and I have to admit, I kinda like him. But I'm wondering if he likes me, or just thinks Im easy (which I'm not) He's always telling me how pretty I am and how smart I am, and how much I make him laugh, and good I make him feel. He's always looking straight into my eyes, which really makes me drool. But he walways has to be touching me somehow, or some way. Either he's stroking my thighs, or get this, trying toslip his hands down my pants. (i know, I know, i alwys push him away. plus, its in the middle of class!) and he tries to kiss me.
But here's the kicker: he has a gilfriend. She told me herself that he never tried to do anything like that with her, I'm the only one. He totally ignores her when I'm around ( i feel bad about that though)
I'm asking. And please be honest.
Does he really genuinlly like me? or does he want a peice of @ss?
Or both?
Please answer me with honesty.
cuz he's kinda sending me mixed signals here..
2006-12-26 15:38:48 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Elle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What he is doing to you, unless you actually consent to it, is called sexual assault. You are in school to get an education which you will need at the very minimum to survive in the world. How can you do that if this guy is touching you up in the middle of class? If he cared for you would he do that? Would any guy with girlfriend who had any moral values or respect for women do that? As a guy I can guarantee you what he wants is a piece of *** alright. Doesn't matter what he looks like, you already know 2 things about this guy - he doesn't respect woman and he is not faithful. Sorry to sound like your Dad but just telling you how it is.
2006-12-26 15:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ben Dover - Contributor 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking him not to touch you like that and he keeps doing it, he is only after one thing. He has no respect for you and a relationship without respect will never work. If you're ever in a relationship where you're not respected, get out! Take it from someone who knows what that's like.
Also, look at how he's treating his girlfriend - ignoring her when you're around... is that how you want to be treated? Chances are that if he treats his current girlfriend that way, he will treat future ones the same way (until he is more mature).
Good luck.
2006-12-26 23:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by rexmcd248 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just wants some!!! He has a girlfriend.....he doesn't treat her that way (he respects her).......but he's trying to see what you have going on. If he gets some, it will be you he's ignoring UNLESS he keeps you around for sex. His girlfriend may not be active with him so he's finding someone to get one thing from while he's giving to his girlfriend. DO NOT LET HIM DEGRADE YOU THAT WAY!!! He's trying to run game tell him it's NOT that serious. It boosts his ego to know that he can stick his hand down your pants when he wants to and you let him then treat his girlfriend like a lady (ignoring or not)
2006-12-26 23:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by betterthanhers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His signals aren't mixed at all (there's nothing mixed signalish about him trying to put his hands in your panties in a classroom full of people - that's really clear!)
He wants you sexually - apparently, he's not sexually satisfied with his girlfriend, so he wants to have sex with you. He will still be HER boyfriend - you'll just be his "friend with benefits" but she'll get the dates, the flowers, the romance - you'll just get to pull down your thong and bend over for him.
Is that what you REALLY want? Or do you want more?
2006-12-26 23:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is touching you like that and you REALLY mean it when you tell him no, he does not respect you. If he is all over you in front of his girlfriend, he has no respect for girls. Seems to me, he is playing games. Maybe showing off in front of his friends. Who really knows! The question is on you, if you were his girlfriend, would you put up with him hanging on other girls? What he is doing to his girlfriend is a preview for you. He obviously has no respect for you, so respect yourself and walk away!!
2006-12-26 23:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by All This and Brains Too! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants something. If he liked you, he would respect you and not feel all over you. If you did get with this guy wouldnt he do the same to some other girl? Do yourself and his girlfriend a favor and leave the guy alone.
2006-12-26 23:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by CiNdiEe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think both. If he is doing those things but has a girlfriend and ignores her when around you, I think he really likes you and wants you at the same time! You need to ask him who he wants you or his recent girlfriend.
2006-12-26 23:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by spears334 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he broken up with the other girl ? if not then hes trying to sail in two boats at the same time . its not good for uto be inthis situation . i am sure he just wants a piece of ur @ss as u put it . either hes with u only or with her only not for both of u . u dont have to give in to his advances at all. un till ofcourse ur sure where u stand with him .
2006-12-26 23:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not a healthy way to begin any lasting relationship, so I would tell him to either go back to his girlfriend, or find someone else, but either way he sounds like he is no good
2006-12-26 23:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by Drew 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are no mixed signals here. yes he wants to do you. if you allow it once then he probably thinks that's all your worth is. my judgment is the guy is a tool and totally unworthy of either one of you. which means he'll probably get to do one of you dee-dee-dee's.
2006-12-26 23:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋