How Can I Get Rid of a Jealous Ex-Girlfriend?

Question

Any ideas? My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend will NOT leave us alone. She knows exactly how he feels about myself. We dated 3 months and then he wanted to go back to her. That only lasted less than 24 hours and she was ready to move back into his house with him when he then called me and told me he had made a terrible mistake. She was there when he called me and told me that. Don't she get a clue??? He has tried being nice to her and telling her there is NOTHING there any longer. He knows this as the night they got back together they slept in the same bed and nothing happened and then the next day the same day he called me she was trying to comfort him when he was crying about myself and he said she touched him and he could tell then things were not what he thought and he had made the terrible mistake breaking up with me. SHe has sent terrible e mails to me in the past and also has put him down in them by disclosing any kind of harmful and embarassing things about him to me.

Answer 1

i think you should first get your man back. tell him that you love him and that u want him back. give him a hug and a kiss your straight. second if the girls want to be jealous let her. now you know and your boyfriend knows that it isnt the same and it will never be. try putting a restraining order against her. if she wants to say all those things about you say this" you gotta alot of nerve sendin me all dis bull crap on the net but you cant confront me to my face? dont tell me on the internet retard come and tell me to my face. you jus mad because my man wants me and he dont want you no more" if she is still trying to get with your boyfriend then you need to sit her down and explain to her briefly that what she is doing is getting on your nerves and making your boyfriend uncomfortable. let your boyfriend be there as well. if after that she is still doing what she is doing then take a picuture of you and your boyfriend kissing and send it to her. hehehe. good luck. much love to you and your boyfriend.

Answer 2

I think they (your boyfriend and his ex) will make a good pair, Don't get caught in this web. If your boyfriend had any respect and love you then he would not be doing this back and forth business. Girl, He broke up with you to go back to her and that won't be the last time. Be the bigger and the more mature person and tell both of them to grow up. There are so many nice ones out there,wasting your time and feeling over undeserving ones might make you miss the good ones.

Answer 3

The problem is not only with a jealous ex, but also your boyfriend. I'd say, don't contact him til he sorts out his own mess on who he really wants to be with. It's terrible for you to go through such a pain, and I bet you have your doubts now on when will he run to her again. Think of the way you treat him, did you treat him so bad that he go running back to his ex? Maybe you need to change the way you treat your man too. If you treat him right, there's no reason for him to think twice.

Answer 4

You do not give your age but you sound young-- and forgive me, but foolish. It doesn't BOTHER you that he was supposedly in love with you and he went back to his old girlfriend- for whatever reason, and whatever REALLY happened, HE DOUBTED HIS LOVE OR COMMITMENT TO YOU TO GO BACK TO HER EVEN IF IT WAS FOR ONE NIGHT- you have to really, really let this scenario sink into to your brain--- opposite shoes- would you EVER do such a thing? While you are truly in love with this guy could you even imagine going back with your ex and take a chance of losing the love of your life over it? And that is the biggest question- WHY WOULD HE RISK LOSING YOU- THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE FOR ANOTHER NIGHT WITH HIS EX- IF HE WASNT REALY INSECURE ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND NOT SURE IF HE REALLY DID LOVE YOU.

Back out of this relationship--- separate and for a good period of time--- see what happens-- does he start dating his ex again? does she stop bugging you because she has him back and do you realize that he may not care as much as he says he does and you really don't want someone like that----what if you were married? That would be considered cheating--- infidelity--- could you live with that? If the answer is yes, then you deserve eachother

Answer 5

Drop your boyfriend. He is indecisive and who knows what other girlfriends will turn up at your door steps. Move on with your life. He is definitely not a man to be trusted. I know it can hurt but being hurt now is better than being hurt in the long run.

Answer 6

Frankly, the best way for you to get rid of this jelous ex would be to give back the boy.

If he left you (even for only 24 hours) for another woman, then you should be done with him. Even if you manage to work things out this time, there'll be another time.

Answer 7

sounds like this is going in circles. He broke up together with her to pass with u now she's jealous and calling him to ask him to leave u for her. Why do the two of u choose for this guy besides? he's gonna do regardless of he needs with the aid of fact he's conscious of the two one in each and every of u choose for him. And is there a out side possibility that he could alrady be messing around together with her on u? I mean if he retains taking her calls and he did leave her for u he ought to o.k. nonetheless be dozing together with her and u don't be attentive to it or refuse to work out it this could be a classic case of having his cake and eating it too. Ur so busy speaking approximately her and it incredibly is him u could be greater in contact approximately. all and sundry who could leave somebody for yet another ought to do it to u too i'm sorry to be this manner yet u extremely could shop ur eyes and ears open, are not getting envisioned over him leaving her for u

Answer 8

LMFAO!!! that was funny. he said they slept in the same bed and nothing happened. AND YOU ACTUALLY BELIEVED HIM!!! omg...i started choking on that one. no one and i mean NO ONE harrasses you unless you let them. he is allowing her not to go away. it's called caller block, caller ID, not picking up the phone, changing your e-mail address, changing your number, and if necessary changing your home address. there are a million ways to get rid of an ex. he's just not doing any of them.

Answer 9

ditch him honey. he must obviously not be THAT into you if he left you for her in the first place. think about it. im sorry to say it and i know its hard. end it while its still early on. dont put yourself through that. he could end up cheating on you with her.

Answer 10

You need to get rid of both of them.