Okay it's this girl and i've known her for a year now and i'm afraid if i tell her i love her even though she has a boyfriend it might ruin our relaitonship as being friends what should i do?
2006-12-26 15:24:44 · 15 answers · asked by bigboy3466 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
usually, friendships dont go back to normal after you tell someone you love them. who knows, she might feel the same way you do. make a list of the pros and cons. give it some time but in the end, you should go with what your heart tells you to do. good luck
2006-12-26 15:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are crawling the walls due to you feelings for this girl, it would not be fair to not tell her. I understand the risks, but even if the relationship goes up in smoke, you would have the satisfaction of having at least telling her that you love her. It is what you did for love.
2006-12-26 23:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not use the word love unless you have been together for a long time. It cheapens your words.
Let her know that you would love to date her if she ever breaks up with her boyfriend. Only say this if she seems like she would be interested in you - is she flirting?
2006-12-26 23:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-26 23:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by les s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahah *laughs her a** off at 5g 28s 13c's answer* Seriously though, I wouldn't tell her that you love her, that might be a bit much. Just let her know how much you care, but don't use the "L" word. Might scare her, ya know?
2006-12-26 23:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_tart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough question....i think its important to tell people you love them as often as possible because you never know what could happen to them...i've lost more than a few loved ones, and i'm not sure they knew just how much they meant to me...but on the other hand...if she doesn't feel the same way, it will probably make your friendship ackward....but if it were up to me...i'd tell her
2006-12-26 23:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wellz tell er u love er as a bestest friend. love is good hun anyway u get or give it. im soooo alone...and i would say i need a bf, but some internet physco would like pick me up, lol. -love, single angel/looking for love.
2006-12-26 23:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were her, and you told me that you love me...i would start considering you. May be something happens, may be not. I think you need to know what she thinks about that. If not, you will always have the doubt.
Good luck!
2006-12-26 23:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold off until you know they have broken up... then tell her. I bet shes feeling the same way about you. Just one of you have to step up and state your true feelings.
2006-12-26 23:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe♥. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, while she has a boyfriend, thats like being the other guy (women) kind of...ya know what I mean???
2006-12-26 23:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋