Singles & Dating - 25 December 2006

Well, a guy I dated and broke up with two years ago got me a Christmas gift. Now, it's fairly obvious that he still has feelings for me and I have none for him, but I still feel obligated to get him a gift in return.

So, what gift can I get him that says "hey, let's be friends but only friends"? What can I get him without leading him on?

2006-12-25 15:11:49 · 22 answers · asked by Ai-chan 3

I think he really likes me but i feel like we just don't connect at all. Now im totally into this guy on my ski team so much more than ive ever been into my bf. Also im going to formal with a different guy that my bf doesn't know about yet but hes not the guy you get jealous of or anything. Anyway the guy i now like will be at the dance with a girl he doesn't like (he told me this) he got locked into it. i want to take advantage of this chance with him but i dont want to hurt my current bf how can i break up with him without hurting him and should i spring myself into a new relationship? Help! I need advice!

2006-12-25 15:11:21 · 9 answers · asked by Skierstar 1

We have a child together and we have been together(back and forth) for almost 9 years.I am not seeing potential signs for marriage. Also, I have trust issues with him. Issue: I FIND IT REALLY HARD TO TRUST HIM AGAIN. After going through so much in the past.

2006-12-25 15:09:26 · 7 answers · asked by Sammy 2

I dated this guy for some time. Although it was a long distance relationshop, we stayed in touch almost everday. I know he really liked me a lot. Our relationship was at a point were I was ready for an engagement, but he was not. He said that he still wanted some time to think about us. Although he was 99.9% sure about me, he was not there 100%. I was tired of waiting, so I told him that if cannot commit 100%, then I dont want to see him anymore. He was not ready for that, so I said at the moment that if two months down the road, both of us still have feelings for each other, then we will rethink. He never contacted me after that, but over the weekend, he finally got in touch (it was exactly two months and 1 week since we last talked). He said that he has dreams about me. Does that mean that he has been thinking about me or missing me this whole time? How can I approach him and ask him where he stands right now. I dont want to see him if he is not ready for engagement.

2006-12-25 15:09:24 · 6 answers · asked by smiles 1

2006-12-25 15:08:54 · 21 answers · asked by J_DUB_5 2

I love my girlfriend but I hate the fact that she is a club hopper. She and I want to marry each other but I'm afraid her clubbing is going to result into a conflict in our relationship. Is it O.K to marry a woman who loves to go out? I know she's not cheating but.. . . .the club hopping makes me curious.

2006-12-25 15:08:42 · 8 answers · asked by Fundough 2

i am gussing he doesn't like me because i am fat,ugly,and weird?

2006-12-25 15:07:50 · 13 answers · asked by April B 1

he never calls and he goes to college and anytime he ever does call its only to see if we can "hang out" he really just wants to do stuff but i dont want that so what do i do

2006-12-25 15:02:05 · 24 answers · asked by lala 1

my guy friend was doing this and i dont know why?

2006-12-25 15:01:12 · 12 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1

Where can I get one for a Father's day present?

2006-12-25 15:01:08 · 2 answers · asked by Specialist McKay 4

There is this guy that asked me out to dinner, but we have never met before in person. We have several mutual friends, that's all. So you can say it's a stranger date...
We are going to eat italian... but i HATE cheese... AND salad!! so i m thinking about steak... but it's the most expensive item on the menu!!! so help me out here,
should i offer to pay if i order the steak?
should i offer to split the bill if i order the steak?
(thats so embarrassing though!!!)
or u think i should jsut get something else??
what do you suggest? i cannot eat cheese!! and i don't like tomatoe sauce!!!

urgent helP! date is tomorrow!!!

2006-12-25 15:00:40 · 9 answers · asked by CharmingDesire 1

guys what are some pet peeves you have about girls, i hear hairy backs...etc. and same questions for da girls. i hate it when they have short hair, and the back of their head isn't groomed. like when they dont have the starght line and the hair is growing on the sides of the neck.

2006-12-25 15:00:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy in Europe, really liked him, we spent 3 days together, I came back to US. He came to visit me here twice for about 10 days in total. When I realized and told him that it's not gonna work for me he did not say anything but then was crying a lot and said to me that he hasn't got feeling for me strong enough but upset for waisting my time.

But I really miss him now

2006-12-25 14:57:52 · 8 answers · asked by jelly123 2

Some would say that Internet/long distance phone friends are just friends...which makes perfect sense.

But why keep it a secret?? And espect a gal not to feel uncomfortable: Especially if the comment has been made "It's not what you know that should worry you, it's what I don't tell you???"

Why lie to the long distance person AND the "real" friend????

Please don't ask for details...you wouldn't believe them if you knew! Feeling hurt and not really sure if it's justified...

2006-12-25 14:55:29 · 15 answers · asked by coffeegirl 3

I'm just wondering if it's really worth all that time at the gym.

2006-12-25 14:53:57 · 21 answers · asked by Eric G 2

If your sleeping with someone for a while and they have always had two women in their life,and they told you about it would you still stick around or drop them, even if you thought they could be more than just friends with bennifits?? Please Help

2006-12-25 14:51:18 · 20 answers · asked by sdctvangel 1

I dated my ex for about 5.5 years. We broke up for the last time about seven months ago. Things between us since then have been tense, to say the least. I started dating my current bf a month after the breakup (bad, I know), and am happier than I've ever been.

The ex and I have a lot of mutual friends, and I hate that only one of us gets to go to any get-togethers. He's told me in the past that he doesn't want to be around me. Do you think a Merry Christmas and a friendly message might work towards repairing the relationship? I don't care so much about being friends with him since we have so little in common now, but I do wish we could be at the same place at the same time without any sort of drama. Ideally, I'd like him to be ok around my current bf, since he is very much a part of my life and will likely remain so, but I don't want to ask too much.

2006-12-25 14:50:06 · 10 answers · asked by Ehlena 2

i dated this girl, and everything was really great.and i fell in love with her. shes the only girl i had se* with. well um at the end we broke up for dumb reasons. and i dont know what happened it just happned so fast.well anyways we have been friends and we talk alot but sometimes....our old feelings come back. well this is where i messed up. i was telling her how much i loved her and..she told me to stop..and i said why and she said that she had a bf...i didnt know what to do or say. so i only said o...and she said that it didnt mean that she doesnt love me and she didnt want me to act so stubbern. well i did i said somethings i didnt mean then she said bye and never talk to her again. how do i get her to forgive me? i mean i want to stay in her live..i love her to death..i tryed everything but shes not talking to me...im not sure what to do....if i cant get her to forgive....at least i want to talk to her one more time....i dont want our last time talking....be spend fighting.

2006-12-25 14:48:34 · 6 answers · asked by countryman 3

2006-12-25 14:46:54 · 4 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4

OK, i asked this girl out and i got rejected.

a day after that, she called me and asked me out..... -_-, should i go out with her?

2006-12-25 14:45:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-25 14:43:06 · 30 answers · asked by angle f 2

is that too small or just fine? I don't have low selfsteem... I am very happy with what I got and I wouldn't change myself a bit. But I wanted to know people's opinion!!!

Thanks

2006-12-25 14:42:42 · 18 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2

Well, I took my friend's girlfriend from him, he was living with me but now she is coming to live with me so it's time to give him the big ole boot to the curb. The man has no girl and no house. Anyway, he wants to sit here and argue with me, saying I can't kick him out legally. Can I, or not?

2006-12-25 14:42:26 · 12 answers · asked by mister roy jones 2

2006-12-25 14:41:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

While going to a work meeting in another State, I met a girl I really liked and asked her out. She said she wasn’t ready to date but she just left a serious relationship but she said she was really attracted to me. We exchanged numbers.

A week later she called me and asked if I was dating anyone special. I said no. She said she wanted to call me once in a while. She usually calls once a week and we talk about work and what is happening in our lives.

A month later she finally tells me she likes me and she wants me to come visit but then says its not like we can go out together because we lived so far away.

Why should I go see her if she says we can't go out together?

2006-12-25 14:41:14 · 9 answers · asked by trapped 1

2006-12-25 14:38:44 · 15 answers · asked by babygirl7579 1

I dated my neighbor a year ago and I was with him for nine months. I was in love with him, I saw him every day. Where ever I was, he was right beside me. I loved everything about him, right down to they way he argued with me. I loved everything about him. But I made a mistake of brakeing up with him b cuz I wanted to try something else for a little while. Everyday since then I think about him. I want him back, at one point I was almost back with him, but he changed his mind. But a week ago I had to spend the night at his house and one thing led to another and I did something very stupid. I told him that if we did this it wouldnt be the same between us. He said it would be like a one night stand. I told him I dont think I could live with myself after. But I just wanted to kiss him again, and it just trailed from that up to ( you know what). I want to cry but I cant and I want to tell someone but I cant. I want to be over him, I just dont know how. HELP ME

2006-12-25 14:38:05 · 9 answers · asked by one tuff babe 3

about it? My boyfriend agreed with my sister on something and took her side on it. They both embarrased me. Should I be upset about it or not?

2006-12-25 14:38:02 · 2 answers · asked by Rose 1

2006-12-25 14:34:55 · 9 answers · asked by angle f 2

I been dating this guy off and on for a year and he keeps dumping me and trying to get back together with me and i took him back the first few times but now i dont wanna take him back. I know hes a sociopath because the way he treats me and everybody else he knows, and the way he carries himself and his personality fits the description completely. do you think he might kill me if I never take him back again.

2006-12-25 14:34:07 · 19 answers · asked by miranda 2