I dated my neighbor a year ago and I was with him for nine months. I was in love with him, I saw him every day. Where ever I was, he was right beside me. I loved everything about him, right down to they way he argued with me. I loved everything about him. But I made a mistake of brakeing up with him b cuz I wanted to try something else for a little while. Everyday since then I think about him. I want him back, at one point I was almost back with him, but he changed his mind. But a week ago I had to spend the night at his house and one thing led to another and I did something very stupid. I told him that if we did this it wouldnt be the same between us. He said it would be like a one night stand. I told him I dont think I could live with myself after. But I just wanted to kiss him again, and it just trailed from that up to ( you know what). I want to cry but I cant and I want to tell someone but I cant. I want to be over him, I just dont know how. HELP ME
2006-12-25 14:38:05 · 9 answers · asked by one tuff babe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ohh I'm so sorry you have a heart ache.... You see something always looks good on the other side of the fence and we try it and then we can't come back. If your love was so strong you would not have ventured away from it.
Yep, you hurt yourself and him.
Help you? How? You have to deal with it and just not see him at all anymore.
Go on mini vacations for weekends with girl-frineds or your family. You need family right now. Just stay away from him. I feel for you deeply because it has happened to me.
Remember these words, "it is over."
2006-12-25 14:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Flo-Jean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get some ice cream and rent some good chick flicks and hibernate for a few days . Dont see him again if possible or at least as little as possible
2006-12-25 14:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Catie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date the neighbor on the OTHER side of your house. If that doesn't work; alcohol.
2006-12-25 14:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep thinking highly of self and move forward. If it's meant to be he'll be back.
2006-12-25 14:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somebody else to spend your time with!
2006-12-25 14:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with someone else. perhaps a black guy. get some good hard lovin and i promise you'll forget about him. Happy Holidays.
2006-12-25 14:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do something that you're hoping for so long
2006-12-25 14:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by ®ÔµM ¸showboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FAMILY...FAMILY.....FAMILY. and a lil shopping with the ladies.
2006-12-25 14:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by blukitti9 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
booze booze and more booze.....................
2006-12-25 14:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋