i dated this girl, and everything was really great.and i fell in love with her. shes the only girl i had se* with. well um at the end we broke up for dumb reasons. and i dont know what happened it just happned so fast.well anyways we have been friends and we talk alot but sometimes....our old feelings come back. well this is where i messed up. i was telling her how much i loved her and..she told me to stop..and i said why and she said that she had a bf...i didnt know what to do or say. so i only said o...and she said that it didnt mean that she doesnt love me and she didnt want me to act so stubbern. well i did i said somethings i didnt mean then she said bye and never talk to her again. how do i get her to forgive me? i mean i want to stay in her live..i love her to death..i tryed everything but shes not talking to me...im not sure what to do....if i cant get her to forgive....at least i want to talk to her one more time....i dont want our last time talking....be spend fighting.
2006-12-25 14:48:34 · 6 answers · asked by countryman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! well obviously she also has feelings for you and thats a good sign...but then theres a bf. I think you should try to see her...find a way to, go to her job, or something like that. Then just tell her that you only want her to hear you out and she doesnt even have to say anything as long as she listens. Then just pour your heart out to her dude! I know you might be ashamed to do it but this is the person you love! If after that she doesnt respond the way you would like, then just tell her that you really appreciated her listening anyway and move on. Sorry thats all there is to do... Good Luck!
2006-12-25 14:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by hottone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need her forgiveness. you didn't do anything wrong. she's the problem. there's nothing wrong with telling her about your feelings. besides, you didn't know she already had a bf. she's like that because she's not into you anymore. you should move on. you shouldn't worry about not being able to talk to her anymore or not being friends with her. she's not worth it. right now, you're just a nuisance to her. but once you have moved on, then that is probably the better time to be friends. i know you're hurting right now. but the best thing to do is to try to get over her. she probably broke up with you because of the new guy and tried twisting it all up, making it seem like the reason was different or probably blaming you in some way.
2006-12-25 23:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by starstrucktv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to e-mail her to tell her you are sorry. Unfortunately the ball is in her court. If she doesn't want to communicate with you anymore ... you can't change her discussion, as much as you would like to.
2006-12-25 22:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by help1972 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude I dont think she is in love...she just one of those girls..soon enough she will dump this guy too..I dont think she was your first boyfreind either
2006-12-25 22:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Silent white cloud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have apologized let it go...
2006-12-25 22:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well leave her be......
2006-12-25 22:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋