about it? My boyfriend agreed with my sister on something and took her side on it. They both embarrased me. Should I be upset about it or not?
2006-12-25 14:38:02 · 2 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not enough info. You can be right and still be wrong. A guy can tease and then find out it wasn't funny. Discussions are fine, but there is such a thing as beating a dead horse. Do you want discussions to go on longer because you are still upset and you don't feel like you have got your pound of flesh yet? Or do you feel he is caving and he does not understand why he was wrong. You can always ask him to tell you why he feels it is wrong now when he still did it. The worse thing to admit is that you did something and you did not have a good reason to. A discussion is an exchange of ideas that leads to a meeting of the minds. An argument is an exchange of bile and emotions and venting and usually has very little to do with the meeting of the minds and a lot more about venting frustrations and disappointments.
2006-12-25 14:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't be upset about. Just learn to agree to disagree.
2006-12-25 22:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋