If your sleeping with someone for a while and they have always had two women in their life,and they told you about it would you still stick around or drop them, even if you thought they could be more than just friends with bennifits?? Please Help
2006-12-25 14:51:18 · 20 answers · asked by sdctvangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think of your self-worth. Do you really want to sell yourself short of your true values? Certainly not! Dump the Two-Timer and dont waste your time looking over your shoulder or wondering why, why, why. Set your standards above dirtbags and wait for a real guy to come along. Never think you need to lower yourself for someone who thinks more about his selfish desires than your heart of love. Make up your mind that you will never get involved with scums like that again. Focus on your job and education and one day the right kind of guy will walk into your life...a real man, not a dogg!
2006-12-25 15:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you already know the answer to this one yourself, you don't like it because your heart is involved. You're hoping for a miracle, for this to be the exception to the well-known rule of this cannot end well. You may be hurting badly and feel desperate now, but think about this: how can this possibly get better? Do what you need to do and don't let him lure you back into what will only be the same mess. I'm sorry you're going through this. You're not alone.
2006-12-25 15:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by reddress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. You deserve more than to become someones back up! If you could be more than friends with benefits, then why aren't you? That's the question to be asking yourself. That and why does this person feel that they have to have 2 women in their life at all times? It's not a good situation and there's guaranteed to be heartache in the long run.
2006-12-25 14:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in this situation, you are really risking your life. You need to leave this person alone ASAP. There is too big of an AIDS crisis going on in the world today and you could possibly be gambling with your life. I hope you make the right decision. Good luck and Merry Christmas.
2006-12-25 14:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by TRUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god...I think you would need to decide if you want to be in a man-woman relationship with this person, or if you just want to be friends with perks. Although, depending on the type of person, you may not get an answer you want to hear, there may be a reason this person engages in relationships like that...with more than one person at a time. If you decide you want to be in a man-woman relationship, you have to confront them. All the best of luck, I hope everything works out.
2006-12-25 14:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by Richard W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop him in a New York minute. Why would you expose yourself to all the std's out there? Is he really worth dying for if he gets infected? As long as there is no commitment you will always be "a friend with benefits". Why would you want that for yourself?
2006-12-25 14:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Friends with benefits" is a term made up by some guy who wanted to get laid and not have to be committed to the girl he is banging. He made up the term so that maybe the girl would actually believe that being treated like a whore but not worth being treated like a girlfriend is a good thing. Wise up,
2006-12-25 14:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of you make me sick and your are an embaressment to women. if you think that it's ok thathe's screwing you and someone on the side you deserve to be with someone like that.if not then dump him and do something productive with you life besides getting pregnant and dropping out of school. don't get married or pregnant go to college. STOP PERPETUATING THE CYCLE DUMBASS. and yes you can afford it there are a million ways to pay for college. stop being a dumbass.
2006-12-25 14:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, drop them!!! because your heart probably has already dropped them, maybe your mind or something else, wants to stick around for revenge or to prove that you are the only one. but the heart will get hurt. watch for it, Drop them!
2006-12-25 14:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP THEM. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Don't ever think you can change a person. The only one that can change a person is himself/herself. Please be careful, it sounds like you might be in for a world of hurt if you continue the relationship.
2006-12-25 14:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ehlena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋