Singles & Dating - 20 December 2006

So I love my bf but he ALWAYS has girls all over them. ( he doesnt lead them on..dont worry) and he gets upset that i get jealous. so how can i not be so jealous all the time? I mean i trust him and everything i just hate freakin girls all up on his nuts all the time!

I need help.

Please..

2006-12-20 15:55:36 · 6 answers · asked by FairChild 3

I broke up with my friend of 2 years and boyfriend of 3 months because of my family situation. I still care for him but he never asked why I broke up with him he just said ok and a few other things. Because he didnt question it does that mean he didnt really care about me and maybe wanted it to be over?...

2006-12-20 15:54:00 · 11 answers · asked by jamaicastars 1

I don't think I give guys the right message but worried if I tell them how I feel they will reject me.

2006-12-20 15:53:33 · 11 answers · asked by Stoosha 2

Myself and my ex, our relationship started off with a bang, then turned into a long distance relationship, and for 2 years we had to contend being apart more so than together. Wouldnt say it was a serious relationship, but we did have a lot of love and affection for each other. Just never got around to having 'the talk.' Things finally fizzled out due to us being at different points in our lives. We ended up talking afterwards to resolve a lot of personal, unresolved issues. A promise was made to go on with our lives, see other people, have new experiences and just grow. And we've been doing just that. But we still keep in regular contact and update each other on what's new. My question is, do you believe that given time and space, an old love can be rekindled? Chemistry, new found understanding of each other and on what we expect in a relationship and a growing frienship is still there, so is it possible? In my heart, i do wish that we could try again once more, when the time is right

2006-12-20 15:51:27 · 10 answers · asked by Mel h 1

My friend asked the guy I like out for me and she said he said yes and when I asked her "Does that me we are dating?" she said yes!! But when my other friend said congratulations to the guy he asked her what she was talking about? And when she said that we were going out he said that we weren't!!! What should I do I don't know who is lying to me or if anybody is lying to me!!! I'M SO CONFUSED!!!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!

2006-12-20 15:50:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay. i just asked a question like this, and someone who answered my question made me get reallly reallly confused. so, my situation is that there is this guy who i like, and he like me back. i kno for a fact, b/c he tickles me, he puts his arm around my shoulder a lot, he is always touching my leg, and we were holding hands for like a really long time, until his gf came along (grrrrr). o, to make this more confusing, my best friend likes him! he is a junior, his gf is a senior, and im a freshman (so is my bff). do u think he is using me? also, someone who answered my question before said that guys in highschool usually date younger girls b/c it is easier to get them in bed. does anyone know from experiance that this is true? god! i need help.

2006-12-20 15:50:13 · 3 answers · asked by ▐▀▀▼▀▀▌ ► Pogo ◄ ▐▄▄▲▄▄▌ 3

Do y'all think its possible to not pay attention to someone's past? Rather its them commiting a crime or being with multiple partners when they had a wild phrase? If they are doing well for themselves and have changed alot from the person they use to be. Can you except them for what they are now?

2006-12-20 15:49:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I hear women use these terms it's always in a negative context. Do all women feel a man being proud of the 'Hot Chick' on his arm is a bad thing ,Or just the ugly ones?

2006-12-20 15:48:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't mean to flirt but I end up doing so and its getting me into serious trouble. Normally I don't even notice I've been flirting until a friend points it out or I think back on how I've been acting. I naturally have a very cheerful and flirty personality but this is starting to get out of control. Help!

2006-12-20 15:46:09 · 8 answers · asked by smile! 3

I don't mean to flirt but I end up doing so and its getting me into serious trouble. Normally I don't even notice I've been flirting until a friends points it out or I think back on how I've been acting. I naturally have a very cheerful and flirty personality but this is starting to get out of control. Help!

2006-12-20 15:45:45 · 19 answers · asked by smile! 3

We've been goin out for 1 month i got her a present for one month. Should I get her a present for Christmas? TELL ME?

2006-12-20 15:44:55 · 19 answers · asked by Alex 2

2006-12-20 15:43:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 15:43:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've only been on 2 dates in the past 3 1/2 years. Girls are really intimidating to me. Not to mention the fact I'm not the best looking guy around doesn't help so I feel like I can't compete with other guys who are better looking than I am. I don't know what to do! Please help!!!

2006-12-20 15:43:08 · 8 answers · asked by Brian 5

At the moment I really don't have much luck with the ladies.

I just wanted to know how to sweettalk a girl. What kind of stuff should I whisper in her ear? What kind of things do you ladies like to hear from a guy?

What words could I say to sweep you off your feet, make you blush, and make you horny?

Where do you like to be touched, what do you like to hear, what do you like to talk about?

please help, Ladies.

2006-12-20 15:42:39 · 33 answers · asked by hotnickels8288 1

When your girlfriend goes out of town and you agree that she will call you when she gets back after a couple day trip, do you call her if she doesnt call you to say she's back. She got back on a saturday and I waited until monday to call her. I just wanted her to think enough to call. We have been going togehter for two years. She doesnt remember the agreement (it was the night before she left) and said I could have called her. I say its a courtesy to call and say you're back - as agreed. Maybe she just doesn't like having to call. I think its nice to call when you get to your destination and/or at least nice to call when you get back. Now we have some issues and she won't talk about it and won't return my calls for 2 days. I really gets to me when the one you love ignores your calls. Do I continue to call, leave it be, or need to get over her? Or is calling something the man should always do? We are in our 40's.

2006-12-20 15:40:54 · 12 answers · asked by Rickso 1

And plus he even told you to trust him.....should you believe other people who are your friends..... or should you belive your boyfriend?

2006-12-20 15:40:18 · 23 answers · asked by Denise12 1

2006-12-20 15:39:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately I notice that women can't get enough of that eye contact.

If I walk in a corridoor somewhere, and there is a lone attractive woman moving towards me, she invariably looks at me in the eyes! Thats ok, BUT, she never looks away! She expects ME to break eye contact! And I must be honest with you: it's HARD to keep that eye contact all the time. But I usually cope and keep staring back.

2nd example. I'm in a coffeeshop sipping latte and reading a newspaper, I'm alone at a table. When looking around, I notice a woman sitting at an another table, looking at me. I smile, break eye contact quickly, and continue reading the paper. A few minutes later I accidentally look at her, and there she is, STILL looking at me.

So here are the questions

1) why do you girls like staring at us guys? Do you stare at other girls like this as well?

2) do you test us, "weigh" our sexual attractiveness in this way? if a guy breaks eye-contact first, do you think "ah, sucker!" ?

2006-12-20 15:39:21 · 7 answers · asked by automaticStabilizer 2

My bf and I have been dating for a year now,recently due 2 him moving have 2 maintain a long distance relationship. We are both in college and very busy! We see each every other 3 months This is not enough for me There was a time period when my boyfriend and I broke up during this time I started a Friends With Benifits relationship FWB blows my mind! I mean he just does it for me I feel like I'm 17 again! But besides the physical, his mental does it for me too overtime our FWB relaitonship became more serious and there has been talk about becoming exclusive I am falling in love with him when my boyfriend and I got back together I couldn't break off my FWB relationship So what should I do? I really love my bf, I do but we are so far apart from each other we are both young and trying to get our lives straight I fear taking a chance with my FWB and it not working out, and me losing my bf! I could easily have my cake and eat it too but I want 2 do whats right......

2006-12-20 15:38:57 · 9 answers · asked by MS_RED 1

is it wrong to go on a 2 dates with a girl and on her birthday get her something nice is that to soon

my gift is a rose and a cd filled with classic rnb and a card is that to soon if i give it to her will it make me look desperate

2006-12-20 15:37:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I am 17 and my bf and I were "doing stuff" I guess you could say and he did insert his penis into me, but he said that it did not go all the way in. I am so worried that I am not a virgin anymore (he says I am because my cherry didnt pop) but I still want to clarify.
I promised myself that I would not have sex until I am in love.. and honestly, I really do care about this boy but I am not "inlove".... how can I be so irresponsible??

2006-12-20 15:36:59 · 41 answers · asked by melligurl89 1

2006-12-20 15:36:44 · 8 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2

2006-12-20 15:36:29 · 15 answers · asked by tolentino03@sbcglobal.net 1

A guy at work (hold the dating coworkers lectures, please) says he's interested in me and that he wants to spend time with me, constantly compliments me, brings me little things (e.g. poinsettia for my desk, holiday treats), and makes it a point to stop and say 'hi' when he walks by my desk. however, he seems to prefer phone texting and IM'ing than calling me. Some of the im sessions have gotten pretty racy (fun!), but we've never kissed or anything in 'real life'. We've gone to coffee once during the day, but no date. This 'interest' has been going on since before Thanksgiving. Theories? Thoughts? Thanks! :-)

2006-12-20 15:35:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi. I'm only 12 years old and I need some help. Well, I'm not aloud to date or have a boy friend. And I have this friend that really likes me, and wants me to be his girl friend. I told him I'm not aloud to have a boy friend, but he still likes me. Now, he and his friend keep asking if I like him, but I don't. I've had bad experiences telling guys that I don't like them, and I don't want to hurt his feelings. What do I do?? Please help me. ='( **tear**

2006-12-20 15:34:01 · 9 answers · asked by Courtney B 1

Me and my bf have been together for like 4months now....this is really the first real relationship ive been in, so im so confused does everyones bf go out to clubs without there gf.....is this normal??

2006-12-20 15:33:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 15:32:20 · 11 answers · asked by rusty 1

So. the typical teenage drama. I LOVE this guy. he is so funny, he makes me laugh all the time. and he is really romantic. this one time at our schools music concert, he started waltzing with me!!! omg, anyways (lol, lttle off topic) im in this huuuuuggge friggin dilema. u see, my friend likes him!! i KNO that i shouldnt go out with him, but my question is if he asks me out, should i tell him WHY i cant go out with him? what should i tell my friend? i dont want to spil her secret, but i dont want to hurt him by saying i cant go out with him and not give a reason. o yea, he is a junior, and im a freshman. do u think that is too much of an age gap?

2006-12-20 15:30:24 · 5 answers · asked by ▐▀▀▼▀▀▌ ► Pogo ◄ ▐▄▄▲▄▄▌ 3

I don't know how to deal with this. I had a crush on this guy a long time ago, we recently met back up and started sleeping together. He acted like he loved me. He showed all the signs. Breaking plans with his friends to be with me, he was so affectionate, didn't just have sex with me but made love. I really thought he had feelings for me. Well so I brought up the issue of being exclusive etc., he says he doesn't care if I sleep with others, and there is this girl he is interested in, etc. I don't know how to deal with this. He just wants to **** me apparently. Am I not good enough for him or what??? My ex is still crazy about me so I know I am lovable. Why doesn't HE love me???? I feel so strongly about him like we are soul mates or something and the sex is just incredible and he is just so sweet and I just love him I think. How do I deal with this????????

2006-12-20 15:30:22 · 3 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1