Me and my bf have been together for like 4months now....this is really the first real relationship ive been in, so im so confused does everyones bf go out to clubs without there gf.....is this normal??
2006-12-20 15:33:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell me you've stopped going out to clubs alone with -your- friends? Haven't you ever heard of the girls' night out? Boys have them too.
So - yes, it's normal. It's NOT normal if he's doing it 4 times a week and is not reachable while out at night. But otherwise relax - it'll do your relationship good if you both have healthy social lives independent of one another.
2006-12-20 15:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by zinnamon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he's in a relationship, do not mean he can't continue to hang out with his friends. If this relationship is as serious as you say it is. you are going to have to trust him and give him his space. Don't make him feel as if he has to lose his identity to have a girlfriend, because if you do that, you will soon be an ex-girlfriend. I suggest you spend some time with your friends as well, and then the time you two spend together, will be a lot more special. Good Luck and I hope this relationship works for you.
2006-12-20 15:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Itsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meh, its normal. I mean sometimes guys like to go out with just the guys. Bonding or whatever. Just as long as he doesn't cheat on you then who cares. Then again, definition of "cheating'' is different depending on who you ask. So if you feel that you spend enough time with him, as in he pays enough attention to you, then its cool. And every once in a while ask to go with. See what he says, say you want to go out too, don't make it seem like your checking in on him (even though you kinda are.) All in all, sometime away from your boyfriend is good.
2006-12-20 15:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by armyguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. the problem is you don't know what he is doing there. ask I'm just to be careful and keep in mind that you two are in a relationship and not to mess it up when he gets drunk. The only thing you can do it trust him and go with your gut feeling.
2006-12-20 15:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Tess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your call; you ought to verify how lots you will positioned up with. I, for my area, do no longer think of that it quite is acceptable to get pi$$ inebriated and dance with adult adult males who're attempting to mack you once you're in a monogamous relationship. It style of provides me the impact that she does not care approximately your thoughts. I additionally do unlike how she instructed you she replaced into going to golf equipment without you through fact she "has greater freedom". **purple flag** in spite of the reality that i don't understand her, i'm not sure you may have faith the girl in line with what i understand to date. i think of you're a tremendously information boyfriend to even permit her pass clubbing without you interior the 1st place - i've got faith like she's taking advantage of you thoroughly via no longer even being prepared to stay to tell the tale top of issues. It sounds to me such as you provide her fairly some freedom to additionally be going out dancing with different adult adult males interior the 1st place - i don't understand why she has to pass out without you. i do no longer think of it relatively is established habit, and that i've got faith you deserve greater suitable. you ought to pass locate somebody who does not earnings on your have faith and generosity. good success. I choose you the suitable.
2016-10-15 08:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl maybe one day ask himand tell him that your going to hang out with your friends tonight! then tke your friends and you to the club and look inside and see if he is cheeting on you talk to me if you have more prombles at byrdcasstagia@yahoo.com
! no thats not normal and do you and your bf share turst inside
2006-12-20 15:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by casstagia b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah.. what if you get married you cant keep that short of a leash on him plus what are you 13?? maybe 14.. you need to learn a few things about life, once you get older you'll see
2006-12-20 15:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine doesnt, n i i went 2wice 2 c how it was (i've been w/ him since i was 17) but we dont find the need 2 go
2006-12-20 15:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by latinababe0105@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go with mine! He wouldn't hurt me that way going with his horny friends without me, and I do not see male strippers without him ( he plays pool etc in the meantime).
2006-12-20 15:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey...it's ok. He just needs time with the guys just like you need time with your girls. This is normal.
2006-12-20 15:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Edisto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋