My bf and I have been dating for a year now,recently due 2 him moving have 2 maintain a long distance relationship. We are both in college and very busy! We see each every other 3 months This is not enough for me There was a time period when my boyfriend and I broke up during this time I started a Friends With Benifits relationship FWB blows my mind! I mean he just does it for me I feel like I'm 17 again! But besides the physical, his mental does it for me too overtime our FWB relaitonship became more serious and there has been talk about becoming exclusive I am falling in love with him when my boyfriend and I got back together I couldn't break off my FWB relationship So what should I do? I really love my bf, I do but we are so far apart from each other we are both young and trying to get our lives straight I fear taking a chance with my FWB and it not working out, and me losing my bf! I could easily have my cake and eat it too but I want 2 do whats right......
2006-12-20 15:38:57 · 9 answers · asked by MS_RED 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you got yourself in a little bit of mess say haven't ya!
If your young enjoy being in a mess as such!
2006-12-20 15:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by bentomsun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends what you want in a relationship.
If you're looking for someone stable, comfortable, who you know is going to be there -- someone that is committed and possibly "marriage material" it sounds like you need to get rid of your FWB and stick with your current boyfriend.
If, however, you enjoy the FWB concept so much and that's what you really want right now -- to enjoy your youth and have fun and not worry about commitment and compatibility and the long-term, then let your boyfriend go and find someone else, and you stick with your FWB.
2006-12-20 15:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I just about peed mysefl when i read this...I'm in the smae boat. FWB blows my mind as well, but I can't decide. I'm inching more to a break with the bf, just to have my fun in college and if things work out with him, then fine. But why spend time right now worying about it. If thing=s are meant to be then I have the rest of my life to spend with that guy, that;s why I should have fun when I'm young!
2006-12-20 15:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Meagan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it going if either of them find out your screwed, but you know what, if you like the FWB right now and want to move on to a relationship sort of deal break it off with your BF without your FWB finding out.
2006-12-20 15:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by bobom190 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never take chances then you maybe giving up the best things in life. I understand that you love your bf but if he is not doing it for you mentally or physically then you need to move on. But it's your choice just remember what I said about chances. Good luck!
2006-12-20 15:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by acestjohn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must be firm and stop seeing your FWB friend. You are in a relationship and you must stay loyal.
2006-12-20 15:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose 1
2006-12-20 15:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by jaimee_808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say take ur time, u dont have to be in a rush. when the time comes u will make a decision, make sure it's one that you can live with
2006-12-20 15:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by berumcobbfloosbeilding 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not "in love" with two guys. You may have fun with two guys. You may like two guys. You may have fun saying you are dating two guys. But, you are not "in love" with two guys. Love is not something that is easily distributed.
2006-12-20 15:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by achristian520 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋