I don't know how to deal with this. I had a crush on this guy a long time ago, we recently met back up and started sleeping together. He acted like he loved me. He showed all the signs. Breaking plans with his friends to be with me, he was so affectionate, didn't just have sex with me but made love. I really thought he had feelings for me. Well so I brought up the issue of being exclusive etc., he says he doesn't care if I sleep with others, and there is this girl he is interested in, etc. I don't know how to deal with this. He just wants to **** me apparently. Am I not good enough for him or what??? My ex is still crazy about me so I know I am lovable. Why doesn't HE love me???? I feel so strongly about him like we are soul mates or something and the sex is just incredible and he is just so sweet and I just love him I think. How do I deal with this????????
2006-12-20 15:30:22 · 3 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As much as this will hurt and as hard as it might be, you need to STOP having sex with him and leave him alone. Do not show him any attention.
He will either come to his senses and realize what a great girl he had in you, or he will keep up his old ways of having sex with random girls.
Either way, you'll come out ahead. One way you get the guy after he changes his ways, the other way you do not have to deal with a playboy.
2006-12-20 15:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you ve said its just about the sex, ,you might feel like you really are soulmates and all of that, but you yourself are deceived, you dont love him. that is not love, their is no respect for one another, their is no widening of horizons, you just have sex but you dont learn from one another,
if you were another person and you would read your question and try to answer it, you know you would sound twisted all over
he is not in to you, he does not even make you feel good enough, why give him the right to do that to you,he is just another man, he is nothing, you must see that you are more than that, if he does not want you, i know it could really hurt to be rejected just like that, but you are intelligent enough you dont need to take this, move on!!!!!
2006-12-20 23:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF YOUR ALL YOUR TOOOO INTO YOURSELF AND YOU NEED TO LET GO OF WHAT IS NOT YOURS ANYMORE. IF YOU REALLY WANT SOMEONE CRAZY ABOUT YOU THEN JUST GO WITH YOUR EX!!!
2006-12-20 23:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by ~Escorpion~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋