Singles & Dating - 20 December 2006

well we had to handle some business (me and my ex bf) and well we broke up in a good way but i had not seen him in like 2 months and well we lived together and things were great until any other realtionship we got tired of each other and fought too much so HE broke up with me and I had no choice but to move on. Today we saw eachother and i was trying to be strong and act normal, but he broke down saying he missed me and he hugged me alot, he had teary eyes and just said how rough it has been lately.That broke me inside and i just gave in too. one thing led to another and we had sex. i know we will never get back together if it was up to me we would be. but obviously he doesnt feel anything because he just said that it he had made a choice and that he had to be strong and stick to it. I didnt try to and act out how i really felt but I cried when i drove him back. now i feel crummy like i am back to the beggining of the break-up. How can I get over this one now? I am completely confused

2006-12-20 15:30:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has a gf... but likes me too. i kno this may sound REALLY mean.. but how can i get him to like me more than her?

2006-12-20 15:30:10 · 5 answers · asked by just_stay_strong_xx 1

How about it? As a guy, I know of one girl who wore something...no idea what it was, but I remember what she smelled like to this day. It was intoxicating and made me go nuts...in a good, lovin' sort of way. Is there a cologne that will do that to you??? What do you want a guy to smell like?

2006-12-20 15:27:41 · 12 answers · asked by The Rainmaker 1

I am really starting to hate dating! I have been actively dating for the past 1.5 years and I am becoming very emotionally drained. The dating game is always the same. for me..meeting someone, getting to know them, I start liking them, I start getting my hopes up and finally my gets heart broken and its the end of the ride. It's becoming a pattern for me and I am honestly tired of crying and being let down. I try to follow all the dating rules. I don't jump right into bed right away, I try not to get really into them too fast and I do take things slow for the most part. I do little things for them to show them I care like cooking for them, I may take them out to dinner, and I give them space when they need it. What am I doing wrong? How can I prevent my heart from being broken all the time?


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2006-12-20 15:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by chocolatebabycakes 4

when you turn 17 and on does things change for you..does new things in life start to be easy or hard...what is good about being 17 is it important?please people tell me what i will be expecting.

2006-12-20 15:26:46 · 11 answers · asked by klaycon1 1

i like this guy, he seems sweet a lot of times but sometimes hes like a kid you know, like all he knows are sexual stuff. we didnt have sex yet, and sex talk is okay but of course when it goes overboard it gets really annoying, especially if you really like him and want him to be your boyfriend or something.

am i wasting my time? i mean i know the more time i spend w/ him, hoping to find something i dont even know exists, the less time i have meeting other people who might actually even feel something for me..

we're of the same age, and hes never really had a gf. he says im the only girl he likes and im the only one on his msn messenger. we trust each other enough to know each others passwords and credit card info. lol. we're close friends..and i think im falling in love with him. whenever i try to talk abt feelings though he would ask me questions like what do i feel or what am i talking about, i mean if he felt it too surely he doesnt have to ask!

2006-12-20 15:25:41 · 6 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3

My situation is very rear. Iam a married woman for about 13 yrs and with three kids. I am also have been living with my in-laws.(13years now). They are good people, but sometime we just dont get along as we should. I practically have the basic needs. I dont have to work,(in which I want too) I dont have to worry about where or with who my kids are. .My relationship with my husband has not been the same. I dont even know if I love him or if its just that I am use to him? I find myself lookin and daydreaming about the perfect man. The saddest part of all, my husband is a good man. The only problem is that he has always limited me from working or going to school in which I have always wanted.(for about 13yrs now) Other than that he is a good father and a loving and caring person. I just feel like I am in lock down. I am getting tierd of the same thing. What should I do????

2006-12-20 15:25:16 · 3 answers · asked by av 1

chris, corbin, or kyle? just pick a name

2006-12-20 15:23:19 · 20 answers · asked by jen 2

Why is it so hard to meet guys? I'm good at getting their attention... I just have a hard time KEEPING it. I'm rather shy so it's tough. I feel like there's so much pressure to be pretty, and charming, and witty, etc etc etc... Any tips on keeping them interested from the first moment?? Thanks...

2006-12-20 15:22:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes we don't think about it. but a city may have more men than women. So i guess if we don't start competing then, we will never get a chance to find a girl unless we move frequently from city to city. What do you think?

2006-12-20 15:22:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

when it comes to a young teenage couple in the movies i know we're going to make out. but what are other things i can do to make my bf happyyy?????

2006-12-20 15:20:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know what to do. it seems as if most of my friends dont like him, and we have been going out for a week. and i want to be with him but yet i dont. and also. my friends do have their reasons to not like him because he gives them attitudes but i still like him. and i dont want to break up with him but yet i do... can someone give me an opinion of what to do???????????

2006-12-20 15:18:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

That
a) I like to pop the zits on my boyfriend's back
and
b) we like to pick each other's noses and then stick it in each other's mouths.
....because we don't think so :/

2006-12-20 15:17:20 · 20 answers · asked by Hehe 1

My ex broke up with me 5 days ago. We planned that i go to his parents place for the break b/c i dont have a home of my own(and he told me to buy the ticket, which i did). After we broke up, he told me i still should come since he doesnt want me to be out on the street(since my dorm is closed). Tonight I flew to nyc, nobody was there to pick me up. His phone was off. I took the shuttle to his place and called a mutual friend Tom to pick me up at the shuttle station. Tom and i just went over to his place. He said he doesnt want me there and his parents acted very cold too. So here i am at tom's place b/c i have nowhere to go. My ex used every excuse to say that i shouldnt have come even after he told me i still should and his phone was acting up and his network was bad so he didnt see my email asking if anyone would pick me up or if not what kind of transportation should i use(this is my 1st time to take a shuttle to ct after all).Now i just feel they're not even decent people;i hate'em

2006-12-20 15:17:06 · 19 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2

girl 1 seems like the girl of my dreams, but it'll prob take a long time to get her
girl 2 gives great head and i can prob bag her in a week

they are both in my physio class, i got 1 day to decide

2006-12-20 15:15:56 · 14 answers · asked by choco taco 3

ok, so i told this guy that i liked him, & he said that he's really glad that i told him ... but i don't know if he means it in a -laugh-out-loud- way or he really is happy that i told him. he told me that he kinda liked me too, but what if he lied ... ?? cuzz we haven't talked too much since, & i get the impression that he's being all shy, but what if i'm wrong ..... ??i hate stressing over this! HELP!

2006-12-20 15:15:39 · 16 answers · asked by nathalie_dawson33 1

Do they only go for looks?

2006-12-20 15:15:02 · 12 answers · asked by Stoosha 2

2006-12-20 15:13:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with this guy for 4 months now. Intimacy is there. I practically live at his place. But when I asked where the relationship was going....He says he isn't ready for committment. Why even lead a girl on and expect her to stick around and wait until they get their priorities together? I just don't understand! Should I just leave it alone and let things be? Or should I wait on him?

2006-12-20 15:12:58 · 11 answers · asked by ladyv 2

I need a poem for a guy who makes me feel alive. When Im around him I feel so happy, almost like a kid, we play around so much, we laugh way too much, we make fun of each other and make fun of life. When Im with him i forget about anything that was bothering me. I care about him so much I wish we could just have our own little world, hes the best friend ive found yet, but i love him and want to be around him as much as i can, make him happy, buy him things, and be touched by him, hugs or kisses it doesnt matter.

2006-12-20 15:12:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so theres this guy at my school and today he told me he liked me. i dont see him as a bf, just as a friend. i told him that and i was very clear about it. so he keeps asking me if i would ever hhave sex with him and if i would send him a nude picture. I told him no for both. he keeps asking and its really starting to bother me. How do i get him to back off?

2006-12-20 15:12:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had 2 boyfriends in my life. I am a shy person around guys.
I have had guys ask me out but I say no cause I dont wana get hurt.I wana give love a chance but im not sure?all the guys who iv
liked and they've like me back were realy hot. I guess im a little picky? is that bad? my question is can i find a guy whose hot and give love a chance or say no and protect my heart?

2006-12-20 15:11:53 · 1 answers · asked by xxstarhopexx 1

I'm so unhappy about it, im thinking of suicide.

2006-12-20 15:11:34 · 23 answers · asked by Ariel 1

2006-12-20 15:11:25 · 19 answers · asked by the one and only 1

1) Independant and self supporting
2) Owns her own power tools and uses them
3) Speaks her mind and stands up for herself
4) Never wears makeup or dresses
5) Doesn't _need_ a man to feel complete

2006-12-20 15:11:17 · 13 answers · asked by heart o' gold 7

Should I consider registering? I've never connected with anyone online before meeting them in person. I know its not as safe to do this but I am thinking about this because I want to be with someone on New Years. Haven't been dating for awhile. Any advice?

2006-12-20 15:11:00 · 6 answers · asked by kowalley 5

i have been married to my husband for 7 years i keep telling him over and over he needs to have fun with me laugh with me be romantic with me and he wont. i even tried counseling with him and nothing he wont change. he wants to have sex the same old way him on top he wont use toys he wont do different thing or positions i am always talking to him about it over and over again the whole 7 years. we even seperated over this and he said he would change. i am almost 30 i want to laugh and have great sex and kiss passionately. i feel that thats what relationships are all about enjoing eachother. my husband isnt changing. he get mad that i wont kiss him anymore he doesnt know how to be sexy or anything. i feel like dating some one else but i cant cause i am married .i feel like all of my 20's i waited for him to change and he just wont he is getting duller and duller. i think about being with other men cause of this. i gave him so much time to change. i dont know why he is with me

2006-12-20 15:09:28 · 27 answers · asked by sophie 1

something cheap and simple for the guy i like...nothing fancy. just something cute..

2006-12-20 15:09:14 · 7 answers · asked by FGT 1

i've backed off, because I am not one to ruin anything..but he makes it clear he likes me. But also clear he LOVES his fiance. But he is making me crazier for him when he says things to me...sexually and things like " I'll sweep you off your feet" why is he doing this when he is clearly in love and nothing can happen between us!?!?

2006-12-20 15:09:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my boyfriend is really sweet to me when we're together or when it's just a couple more people, but at school and stuff it doesn't really seem like he talks to me that much. I only have 1 class with him, and I sit next to him so that's no problem there, but in the hallways and stuff, he just doesn't seem to notice I'm there. So now I've just kind of given up on talking with him in the halls and now I dunno what to do! Like I said, he is sweet to me at every other time except for pretty much at school. Is it just me?

2006-12-20 15:08:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous