I've been with this guy for 4 months now. Intimacy is there. I practically live at his place. But when I asked where the relationship was going....He says he isn't ready for committment. Why even lead a girl on and expect her to stick around and wait until they get their priorities together? I just don't understand! Should I just leave it alone and let things be? Or should I wait on him?
2006-12-20 15:12:58 · 11 answers · asked by ladyv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4 months and you're practically living at his place and he's afraid of commitment? wtf? are you just looking to be exclusive or are you thinking about marriage? if you're just trying to get defined titles (boyfriend/girlfriend) then... i don't know what's up his anal cavity. but if you like him/love him and you think he's worth the wait... stick around. if he seems like he's just wanting a live-in sex companion... baby, drop him. the best thing to do is to try to have an open line of communication with him.
good luck.
2006-12-20 15:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are brutes if you don't know how to deal with them. In your situation, men will say > Why buy a cow when you can get a free pint of milk when ever you need it. Move on, unless you are charitable person, you are giving yourself for free.If a woman lure a man for sex , man is the game. But if you want commitment from a man you have to show him that you have dignity,that you are not an easy lay. For some reason men fall for the woman they respect.
2006-12-20 15:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who is saying he's not ready for a committment is saying he's not ready to committ to you. Men can committ.
And you're practically living there? Give him some space, see if he changes his tune. Men like to work for it, believe it or not.
2006-12-20 15:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens with almost every gal.
luk, i had been into this and i know how much it pains when the guy u like, tends to be just stupid friends!
its just cuz guys are unstable, and need something new the next moment. in india, girls in love are said to be sacrificing. and its true honey.
sacrifice ur smiles and happiness for his happiness. show him true love, understand him, alwayz try to keep him happy. and slowly he is bound to come to you, cuz its a respect for a boy to have a caring gf.
all the best sweetheart! i will pray 4 u.
2006-12-20 15:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it be for god sake you have only been with him for four months, you are moving far too fast for this guy it seems that the commitment problem might be yours and not his slow down and let him breathe
good luck
2006-12-20 15:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't like the word "commitment". that doesn't particulately mean he doesn't care for you. Don't scare him away, be nice to him and he'll care for you. They just don't like the feeling of being "trapped". Guys are guys
2006-12-20 15:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only been 4 months, and you practically live at his house? Damn, you move fast....
2006-12-20 15:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by confusedbrowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say leave cuz he is probably waiting to see if someone else is gonna come along
2006-12-20 15:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we men never want to say that is it..we will never see any other woman again.... be patient
2006-12-20 15:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by imurhuckleberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb he does want to have a commitment with you
2006-12-20 15:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by DeathBe4Dishonor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋