ok so theres this guy at my school and today he told me he liked me. i dont see him as a bf, just as a friend. i told him that and i was very clear about it. so he keeps asking me if i would ever hhave sex with him and if i would send him a nude picture. I told him no for both. he keeps asking and its really starting to bother me. How do i get him to back off?
2006-12-20 15:12:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just explain to him that it bothers you alot, you like him as a friend and thats all it will ever be, unless he keeps being to aggressive and persistant, then you will not even be able to be friends because it makes you feel too uncomfortable, and you do not enjoy hanging out with him
2006-12-20 15:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by sevenout7 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that if he wants to be your friend-he's going to need to stop being a perv. and buggingg, and that you do not find the requests he's asking for funny, and in fact if he doesn't shut-up-you'll have to take it up to the powers that be (principal; teacher) about the situation. Tell him it's sexual harassment and he could get kicked out of school for this or worse-if he keeps buggin you.
2006-12-20 23:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants your attention! So, tell him that you used to think about the possibility of dating him, but not anymore because he's acting like a perv when he keeps asking for sex and nude pictures. Then he'll tell himself that he needs to stop acting like a perv because he'll think that he still has a chance to tap your *** or date you or WHATEVER you crazy kids do these days. .....the truth
2006-12-20 23:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by McHales_navy_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you like him as a friend only,but he is putting that friendship in jepordy if he continues to ask you for sex or nude pictures and if he continues,you will file harrasment charges against him.
2006-12-20 23:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple fact he would be so bold to ask you such personal and inappropriate questions and keep asking, tells me you didn't make it clear enough that you don't fraternize with such people of low character. What are you doing that would make him think you have sex willy nilly and would pose nude?
2006-12-20 23:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell a teacher about this. this is sexual harassment. and if that dosen't stop him or it gets worse you may have to call the police. i pray that it doesn't go to that but if it does then we're here for you and if you really don't have to call the police like if it keeps going on but at the same way then i say either slap him or punch him in the face. good luck.
2006-12-20 23:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by ZariaD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason guys like him are so persistent in those situations is simple
he thinks you are testing his limits. He thinks that if he gives up and says 'oh well', you will turn around and say to him 'and that's IT? Why do you give up so easily? Sucker'
Make sure that he knows full well that you are not attracted to him, in any way.
2006-12-20 23:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by automaticStabilizer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him!!!
Tell him that if he wants to keep being friends he needs to back off & stop talking to you like that.
2006-12-20 23:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be firm with him and if he doesn't get off your back, tell an adult that you trust about it. He is harassing you and you should not feel discomfort at school or anywhere for that matter.
2006-12-20 23:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by Lola 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's stalking you. It's against the law. Report him to school authorities. His behavior is outrageous and you shouldn't take any more of it.
2006-12-20 23:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋