i like this guy, he seems sweet a lot of times but sometimes hes like a kid you know, like all he knows are sexual stuff. we didnt have sex yet, and sex talk is okay but of course when it goes overboard it gets really annoying, especially if you really like him and want him to be your boyfriend or something.
am i wasting my time? i mean i know the more time i spend w/ him, hoping to find something i dont even know exists, the less time i have meeting other people who might actually even feel something for me..
we're of the same age, and hes never really had a gf. he says im the only girl he likes and im the only one on his msn messenger. we trust each other enough to know each others passwords and credit card info. lol. we're close friends..and i think im falling in love with him. whenever i try to talk abt feelings though he would ask me questions like what do i feel or what am i talking about, i mean if he felt it too surely he doesnt have to ask!
2006-12-20 15:25:41 · 6 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no hes not gay!!! LOL
hes a completely heterosexual man, hes only had one gf but they didnt last long, it was during the first few months when we first met. he broke up w/ her, and 2 mos later i had a boyfriend. during that time i received an email from him stating that he loves me.
but i disappeared for 2 years (was in the relationship) and i came back to him when i broke up w/ my jerk ex.
anyway i guess he really doesnt give a rats asss about me now except when he wants to talk dirty and sexual, and also trivial stuff
2006-12-20 15:34:21 · update #1
Unfortunately most guys are really bad at telling their feelings. It's all part of that "macho" act they are trained to believe in from the time they are little. Some are worse than others. I was in love with a guy once who finally admitted to being in love with me, but only when someone else made him talk to me about it. For like a month after that I tried and tried to get through to him and get him to open up to his feelings, with no luck. That was two years ago.. we see each other from time to time, and we've had one good conversation since then where he admitted he still had feelings for me. Yet he still refuses to leave the relationship he's in because he doesn't want to hurt HER daughter (not his kid). And lets her treat him like garbage. I felt so used and mad at him for letting me fall for him and him knowing he wasn't willing to try to change anything and get out of his current relationship.
It hurts, but it's the best thing for me to do to just leave him be and move on. If he isn't willing to tell you how he feels, how can you trust him in a relationship? There must be communication to have trust.
2006-12-20 15:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by nismax95 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 15:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup. Could be that he's gay, and that is why i can explain that he talks about sex and stuff all day-cuz he can't get none, but yet doesn't do it on you. Talk to him about boys and just check down there to see if you notice a bonner---heehee. I bet I'm right!
2006-12-20 15:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay. Run like hell. Yes I'm serious.
2006-12-20 15:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lead, he follows...
2006-12-20 15:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but i am a guy.
2006-12-20 15:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋