well we had to handle some business (me and my ex bf) and well we broke up in a good way but i had not seen him in like 2 months and well we lived together and things were great until any other realtionship we got tired of each other and fought too much so HE broke up with me and I had no choice but to move on. Today we saw eachother and i was trying to be strong and act normal, but he broke down saying he missed me and he hugged me alot, he had teary eyes and just said how rough it has been lately.That broke me inside and i just gave in too. one thing led to another and we had sex. i know we will never get back together if it was up to me we would be. but obviously he doesnt feel anything because he just said that it he had made a choice and that he had to be strong and stick to it. I didnt try to and act out how i really felt but I cried when i drove him back. now i feel crummy like i am back to the beggining of the break-up. How can I get over this one now? I am completely confused
2006-12-20 15:30:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can I put it to him that I want to work things out again. I dont know the words to use I get stuck! He goes through many business problems, plus he is 10 years older (20-30)and i dont know how he will take me saying that. He said he wanted to keep seeing me but that he was not a good man and he would only make me unhappy. But man being with him feels like being on cloud 9! help
2006-12-20 15:38:55 · update #1
Short and simple... ex's are exs for a reason. Something didn't quite work out. Round peg in the square hole syndrome. What you have gone and done is try to force that same round peg in the same square hole...bring back the same pain. After you get over it this time, stick to your guns next time. If you have some doubt about how wise it is to get romantically involved again...don't! Its best for you both. In the meantime, good luck and stay strong, you'll make it through this...again.
2006-12-20 15:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by John N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT VERY NORMAL TO FEEL SAD WHEN YOU BREAK UP WITH
SOMEONE THAT YOU CARE ABOUT BUT IT SOUND LIKE
BOTH OF YOU SHOULD HAVE NOT SLEEP TOGETHER BECAUSE THAT WAS NOT A GOOD THINGS BECAUSE
NOW YOUR FEELING ARE ALL OVER THE PLACE. SO TIME
TO SEE IT FOR WHAT IT IS, A SITUATION THAT GOT OUT
OF HAND BUT TIME TO LEARN FROM THIS AND MOVE ON.
IT WILL GET BETTER AS TIME GO BY SO JUST HANG IN
THERE.
2006-12-20 15:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl... He's a USER!!! You need to never think about this loser again and realize you're better than him and move on. Find a great guy who cares about you and doesn't make you feel bad about yourself.
2006-12-20 15:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you want him and he wants you but is afraid it will just go back to the way it was
you have to try to show him that everything can be better and please be patient
good luck
2006-12-20 15:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋