My ex broke up with me 5 days ago. We planned that i go to his parents place for the break b/c i dont have a home of my own(and he told me to buy the ticket, which i did). After we broke up, he told me i still should come since he doesnt want me to be out on the street(since my dorm is closed). Tonight I flew to nyc, nobody was there to pick me up. His phone was off. I took the shuttle to his place and called a mutual friend Tom to pick me up at the shuttle station. Tom and i just went over to his place. He said he doesnt want me there and his parents acted very cold too. So here i am at tom's place b/c i have nowhere to go. My ex used every excuse to say that i shouldnt have come even after he told me i still should and his phone was acting up and his network was bad so he didnt see my email asking if anyone would pick me up or if not what kind of transportation should i use(this is my 1st time to take a shuttle to ct after all).Now i just feel they're not even decent people;i hate'em
2006-12-20 15:17:06 · 19 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can't blame you chicken!
2006-12-20 15:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by bentomsun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy and his family are *****. You have a right to hard feelings toward all of them for this stunt. I recall seeing your other question concerning this a few days ago. I was thinking then it probably wasn't a good idea to go there, but I understand your situation fully...when you need a place to stay...well.....sometimes you have to do what you have to do. Is it possible Tom could allow you to stay with him until you can figure out something? Do you have any family or other friends you can contact? I am so sorry for the plight you have been placed in.
2006-12-20 15:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by slick chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not hate "them" cos it sounds like the louse of ex boyfriend of yours put you ALL on the spot.
Never should have offered such if had never cleared it with anyone else or never intended to be a host on any level.
Speak with Tom and see what other options may be available for afterall, Tom has been caught in the middle also but better be thankful he knew how to "help" someone out.
Learn from this and move on!
2006-12-20 15:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that really stinks that your boyfriend did that to you. No you do have the right to hate him. Actually that's a pretty strong word. Try irate with him. Or pissed the f off. Don't believe crap about his phone, you know he's lying. What phone company sucks in NYC??? But anyways I really think you should just forget about him. I mean if you told you to go to NYC and pretend that you shouldn't have gone, then clearly something is up. So since your in NYC have fun, go out, go shopping eat at all the cool restaurants. In other words have fun in NYC, it's a cool city since your there anyway.
2006-12-20 15:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by armyguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hate him with every ounce of my body. He was very rude, and he is a BAD person. Very inconsiderate. I'm so sorry that you don't have anywhere to go during the break. But at least you don't have to spend it with that *** hole. Stay with Tom, and hate your ex until you just forget about him all together. And never give him the time of day. What an ***. I hope life brings you better people in the future.
2006-12-20 15:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what kind of guy is this anyway? How could he just leave you alone in a city like New York? He seems very heartless be happy you are free of him. His parents were cold to you because he probably filled their heads with total lies about you. Did he ever have a heart or was he always like this. You poor girl. Now when you are looking for a new boyfriend, you will know what not to look for.
2006-12-20 15:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It good that he treated you this way. It makes it easier for you to move on. Dont hate him because it takes energy and effort to hate some 1 and hes not worth it at all. I understand he has not been good to you and this is probably his way of moving on. Its time now for you to enjoy being single. Put yourself out there and you will meet someone that will make you completely forget about him. If he was sweet to you and good to you, it would make it so much harder for you to move on. Find support through your friends instead of relying on him. Dont think about him..hes not worth your attention. Tom seems nice to you and maybe in the meanwhile you can be good friends with him. hope everything works out for you girl. Life is short, make the best of it while you can.
2006-12-20 15:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by J Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did, but we were married. Since he is only an ex-boyfriend, I say let him go, and KNOW you are the winner, because who needs a loser like him?? It's his loss (& maybe your's & Tom's gain), not yours. Just enjoy you time. It's gone much too soon.
2006-12-20 15:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** THEM ALL!!! That is a bunch of BS. That is rude and he is not even worth regarding at all. You have every right to hate him, and his family too. I suggest you try to ruin his reputaion when school session begins.
Oh yeah...do Tom! That could be great revenge! hahaha
2006-12-20 15:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think ur wrong 4 hating him cuz u spent what $100+ on the trip there and he just tells u to go back home cuz he dont want u there. id hate him too if i was u. id b going psyco on somebody. i guarentee he wouldn't like me any more if i was u.
2006-12-20 15:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE MAD.BUT YOU ALSO NEED TO
LOOK AT THIS AT THE FACT THAT YOU AND HE WAS NOT
TOGETHER AND IF MAYBE YOU SHOULD REALLY SEE
ABOUT PLAN TO STAY SOMEWHERE ELSE. I KNOW THAT
YOU DID NOT HAVE ANY OTHER PLACE BUT IT SOUND
LIKE WHEN YOU GOT THERE THEY DID NOT FEEL THE
SAME ABOUT YOU BEING THERE. BUT THANK FOR THE
OTHER FRIEND. BUT NOW YOU KNOW HE A REAL JERK.
2006-12-20 15:24:18 · answer #11 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋