So my boyfriend is really sweet to me when we're together or when it's just a couple more people, but at school and stuff it doesn't really seem like he talks to me that much. I only have 1 class with him, and I sit next to him so that's no problem there, but in the hallways and stuff, he just doesn't seem to notice I'm there. So now I've just kind of given up on talking with him in the halls and now I dunno what to do! Like I said, he is sweet to me at every other time except for pretty much at school. Is it just me?
2006-12-20 15:08:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm a cookie lover too and i think i just lost mine.
2006-12-20 15:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. It actually sounds like he's embarrassed! If he can only be himself when you're alone, than he's not worth it. Part-time love isn't love, so you need to confront him about this issue on the way out of you're class together. Be sweet and courteous and don't be b*tchy.
If it doesn't get better, end it.
2006-12-20 23:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by marajader2d2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's only you. Maybe your boyfriend thinks its not that important to be lovey dovey all the time. Hallway time might be something totally different for you than him. So if it really bothers you, talk to him about it. Tell him, it bothers you, see how he reacts. Otherwise I don't think it should much of a biig deal. He's fine everytime else, that's what really matters.
2006-12-20 23:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's shy, or not comfortbale with PDA at all. Talk to him, thats the only way of knowing. I know I freaking hate PDA, and if I will love someone to the core, I still will not show affection in front of others, because it is my personal and private life, and I'd like to keep it that way, and school isn' t for PDA, it's for education.
2006-12-20 23:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to save the best for the quality time with you. The more apart you are from your love one, the heart grows fonder. And he is keeping things in moderation that way the quality spent is much more valuable than the quantity of time.
2006-12-20 23:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the same situation i was in a few years ago... when i confronted him about it he told me that he couldn't "be himself" around me and ALL of his friends. so i put up with it- just stopped talking to him in public places and only when it was just us or a small group. Soon it started to feel like he was hiding me and my self confidence wore down. After a year of putting up with it I was so unsure of myself it was horrible. I finally confronted him again about it and he told me he wasn't ready to change. Nothing hurt more than finding out that the man i "loved" wouldn't do anything for me. At this point we left eachother. He couldn't put up with my jealousy and I couldn't put up with the treatment. In conclusion my advice would be to confront him about it and give some time for change- if nothing changes i suggest leaving him. Let him know that you need respect and to be his gilrfriend you need the respect of acknowladgement in public. Talk to him.
2006-12-20 23:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Actually it's Ashley! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look...if hes not willing to be with you in all public places then there is something wrong. Its really not you...its him. You need to talk to him about it and consider if you want a bf who is going to treat you like your invisible in the halls. Personally I would get a guy who wants to be with you everywhere! If he doest change after the talk get a guy who will respect you enough to talk to you.
Good luck!
2006-12-20 23:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's sweet to you everywhere except when you're at school?
He's just scared to show affection in front of many people because he's embarrased. He's just scared
2006-12-20 23:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by joelopr20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because of the people around you. I would talk to him and let him know you are very serious!
2006-12-20 23:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by PROBLEM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Find something else to do. You'll be so busy you won't notice that he is not noticing you.
2006-12-20 23:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by TBAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋