My situation is very rear. Iam a married woman for about 13 yrs and with three kids. I am also have been living with my in-laws.(13years now). They are good people, but sometime we just dont get along as we should. I practically have the basic needs. I dont have to work,(in which I want too) I dont have to worry about where or with who my kids are. .My relationship with my husband has not been the same. I dont even know if I love him or if its just that I am use to him? I find myself lookin and daydreaming about the perfect man. The saddest part of all, my husband is a good man. The only problem is that he has always limited me from working or going to school in which I have always wanted.(for about 13yrs now) Other than that he is a good father and a loving and caring person. I just feel like I am in lock down. I am getting tierd of the same thing. What should I do????
2006-12-20 15:25:16 · 3 answers · asked by av 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After going through a divorce I would say that I have learned that ultimately it is your responsibility to build what you want and need to happen in your life. If you need love and passion it will be there, you just have to create it. It is very possible to fall back in love. It is also possible to educate yourself. Where there is a will there is a way. You are very lucky to have the support of extended family with your children. Take responsible steps and planning to effectively talk and nurture the communication it will require to build the life you want for yourself. Imagine it first, then plan it, and put action to it. If it is to be it starts with ME! Win over and gain the support of your number one man before adding more to the want list! I wish you the best!
2006-12-20 15:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a cataloge from a local community college and leave it laying on the table. Pick it up when he's around and say, I've been looking at some of these adult education courses, ya know I'd like to try taking one sometime.
Of course, this is something you shouldn't have to beg for, so, if you really want it, you'll have to decide how far you willing to go to get it.
2006-12-20 23:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST THING YOU SHOULD DO IS GET OUT OF YOUR
INLAWS HOUSE. THEN YOU CAN START TO LOOK AT YOUR
LIFE IN A DIFFENT WAY. AS FOR YOUR HUSBAND HE MAY
BE A GOOD MAN, BUT HE SOUND LIKE HE CONTROLLING
YOU AND THAT NOT GOOD.IF YOU WANT TO WORK OR
GO TO SCHOOL THEN DO IT. UNTIL YOU START TO LIVE
FOR SELF YOU WILL NEVER DO ANYTHING ABOUT WHAT
GOING ON. TIME TO START LIVING YOUR LIFE FOR YOU
THEN YOU WILL SEE THAT THERE IS SOMETHING MORE
OUT HERE.
2006-12-20 23:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋