Singles & Dating - 27 October 2006

i'm planning a trip to see someone in december, its out of the country..he says he loves me,,but i am 100% sure he is seeing other people, tho he says he is not..he want to start a relationship, but i feel i can't trust him, i know some of this is due to the distant...if things go well one of us will be moving,,but also i don't want to just be a week of fun for him, and then he say "oh sorry, its not going to work out" just some advice...

2006-10-27 01:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by donttalkjustplay05 4

Every time when were together I start to feel like I'm not good enough for and i start to dought myself i feel like **** the rest of the
day and when she finds out she says that i should stop thinking like this because to her I'm the love of her life . (help me find out whats wrong with me so I dont feel this way anymore)

2006-10-27 01:20:12 · 7 answers · asked by Isaiah C 2

ok so if you were a guy who was taking drugs and you had a girlfriend what would you expect her to do. stay with you and help you get clean, would you not give a crap about what she does, or would you want her to stop bugging you about the problem? and also do guys still love you if theyre on drugs?

2006-10-27 01:19:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I decided that the relationship was a little too stifling-- we spend alot of time wasting time doing nothing, sitting around "just hanging" and feeling that we're not connecting with our other friends enough. We decided to not break up or take a break... but to go into the day looking for opportunities to strengthen our other friendships... we thought that maybe then, our time together will be more precious and meaningful... and our love might grow? But I'm afraid that when this happens, we'll stop loving each other... or something along those lines...? Please tell me what you think of this! Thanks!

2006-10-27 01:14:28 · 17 answers · asked by reba 1

I met him 8yrs ago we were both going through breakups. We became strickly friends. Four mos ago it developed into a relationship of intemacy. I want to know where it is going but he thinks I am pushing. He cared for me for 8yrs and I only 4 mos now that I give in he' afraid. He is alot of home issues but I am willing to let him do what he needs to do there. He has no kids but he is 14 yrs younger than me so I am ready to go on but now hes scared. Should I stay or should I go? I think the friendship will end if its over though. He is very inverted and will not express his feelings at all. When we are together everything is cool and apart who knows his feelings. I must be his second real relationship. He says we are dating, but if I see anyone he may not be able to see him again. Is this worth hanging around for?

2006-10-27 01:12:03 · 8 answers · asked by Sybil Sr 2

My gf is moving from England to Paris so we can be together. She doesn't speak a lick of French & so we're not sure about her chances of finding a job quickly. The question is, how should we organize our spendings as I will tend to be generous (esp. in the beginning) & offer most stuff while I can't really afford it. I hate dealing with money... what should we do?!

2006-10-27 01:11:19 · 13 answers · asked by missy 3

this guy i really like is sending me mixed signals... he is my brothers friend tho... if you liked you friends's younger sister would you ask her out or is that not cool???

2006-10-27 01:08:46 · 10 answers · asked by Megzie 1

i want it to be special as she's really stressed out at the moment and we havn't been on a date in a long time... what do you think i shoulfd do to make it special?

2006-10-27 01:06:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

its been over one n a half month hes not bothered to get back in touch :(
hes my very good friend n i really like him alot.
i miss him n his stupid lil conversations....
he was my best bud..
i mailed him n tried my best.... nothing is wrong.... but WHY dint he reply???
i cant forget him
nor i can think of moving on cause hes ALWAYS on my mind,,,,
i dont think i deserve this....................... :(
i want him back :( :( :(

its his birthday next week... hes in london studying ... n im in mumbai... SHOULD I CALL HIM TO WISH HIM??? and just clear out the matter tht y has he acted like this?? i mean if he din wanna talk he couldve at least told me be4 he went.... but NO WE WERE ALWAYS on msgs be4 he left...

if i call him in london ( i want an opinion yes or no) yeah if i call him atleast i can end it off or whtever it is properly without hanging in the middle and see whats actually happening....

GIMME A REASON HOW CAN HE MOVE ON WHEN THER WERE NO FIGHTS NO NOTHING ....

2006-10-27 01:03:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the deal. Everytime my man and I have s*x, I practice oral.But very rarely he wants to lick my *****. Indirectly I've tried to tell him that while having sex, and whenevr he licks my .......... it is very short and because i've asked him to. How do I explain that I enjoy oral, I like pleasing him, but also I like to be pleased. He doesn't want to talk a lot about that kind of stuff. Last time we got mad in bad, and it was out of no where, doing all kind os stuff (which I liked so much) was 2 years ago. What happened then and why was it, why it could repeat now i don't know.Help me please

2006-10-27 01:01:53 · 11 answers · asked by bilezlatko 3

this guy shows all the signs for liking me, hes been chasing me for ages and we have kissed eachother yet, he hasnt asked me out on a proper date and he only contacts me during weekends to meet. we do live in different towns. does he like me?

2006-10-27 00:58:23 · 18 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

2006-10-27 00:58:12 · 9 answers · asked by lil miss country gurl 1

I work on a 3rd shift crew putting up stock in a market. I have had a small thing for the department head for almost 6 months now. I work for another person, not him directlly. He does write my schedule though we never work the same shifts. I am getting transferred soon and I was hoping to make my move but, if he says no I don't think I could take it. I also don't need him blabbing it all over if he says no. Now if he says yes I am willing to be on his terms of how he wants to handle it. Should I take that chance?

2006-10-27 00:58:01 · 3 answers · asked by CamPIL 2

Her name is shiza and she is like 6 months older than me.
Please tell me.
I LOVE her Very much.
I also worte poems for her.

2006-10-27 00:55:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

why can't i find a bf is it me is it cause i'm ugly or something i went out with someone and he treated me lyk crap so i dumped him. did i do the right thing.

2006-10-27 00:54:13 · 12 answers · asked by pinky 1

I found this gay from jeevansathi.com, and we talk daily, he ask me for snap i forwerd though mail, after that he told me yestuerday i love you, but muje pata nahi chal raha ki kya answer dena chahiye, jab muj se baat karta hein muje achha lagta hein, main khud uske call ka wait karti hoon, he is right no israel for some work ? he is coming DEC 2006, and he wants to meet me and he told me every thing about himself, i also , i share my past also with this gay, but now i dont no what to do? what 2 say this gay, b'coz my heart teling me go had this is your choice, and say love you too? and we talk last 4 days only , ye relastion shirf 4 days se hi hein, but i realy say i think i love him?

2006-10-27 00:53:55 · 5 answers · asked by Jasmita P 1

I am engaged and we started talking in fone. He invited me for an outing and i agreed. Now i fear whether he advance to anything else..(he seeems naughty in talk)...Also think of what dress to wear..ofcource it is our first casual visit.Please advise

2006-10-27 00:52:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i av tried hot water but that scolded her hip.washing up liquid was 2 stingy. an she says she aint walking to the fire station wit my hand stuck down the back of her jeans.an she thinks it is a bit extreme getting her ring cut off my finger anyway.lol

2006-10-27 00:51:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I broke up Labor Day weekend..We were together
4 years..some good some bad, he has a substance problem
and was verbally abusive. I know I made the right decision. Now
I am feeling I want to start dating, is it too soon?

2006-10-27 00:49:59 · 11 answers · asked by wicktjw 1

Amanda is my new sexy room mate....tall, blonde, slim big boobs. the thing is t hat whenever her boyfriend comes over they have wild loud crazy sex and always leave the door open. it looks like a lot of fun and i wud want to join them. shud i ask? i also noticed that she freely walks around the house naked and Jeff, her boyfriend often tries to brush against my boobs, do u tnk they WANT me to ask them?

2006-10-27 00:48:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

GF knows I love her, ready to ask her to marry me, I am the romantic type, bubble baths with rose petals, candles, wine, music, massage, etc. She senses I want to propose, then she get's busy with work, family when I want to see her. Why, what/Confused, really, truly love her. Am I wasting my time or what can I do?

2006-10-27 00:44:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this guy for 4 years and I love him very much. He is very sweet but doesn't like talking about his feelings. Which has always been fine with me cause he always showed me by doing little things like kissing me and sending me flowers. But 4 months ago out of the blue he tells me he wants to break up. When I wanted to talk about we came to the conclusion that we had some problems that we needed to work on and decided that we should stay together. But every since then he has not been acting right. Some days he is the guy I fell in love with and other days hes moody. On those days he does not want me to kiss him and everthing I say seems to be wrong. When I ask why hes acting like this he says this is the real him and the last four years he was just trying to impress me. I love this man very much and don't want to lose him but don't know what to think of his behavior. So should I get out or stick it out and see what happens?

2006-10-27 00:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive just come out of a 6 year relationship and i feel too old to date guys/play the field. is this normal?why do i feel like this?

2006-10-27 00:41:57 · 26 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

next month will be a year since we first started dating, and i'm soo stuck what to get him, i've already got him expensive aftershave, bracelets (mens one lol) jus the typical stuff u get i guess for his birthday and valentines, but i don't want to get same or similair stuff again, it's my first long term relationship where i've been in which i'm getting to celebrate one year 2gether, i'm really stuck, please help. i know i can do stuff for him in the bedroom, but i want ideas for something i can buy him, my budgets about £200 is that enough?

2006-10-27 00:40:02 · 4 answers · asked by DaRkAnGeL 4

or any other time for that matter.

2006-10-27 00:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by dank_vile 1

u r honest and true to then but they take advantage of ur honesty n ur true feelings .why it happens n how to overcome it

2006-10-27 00:38:33 · 10 answers · asked by amri m 1

i'm going away with a boy i like. we are gonna be there for the whole weekend, but it's not a date. i think he is gonna try and get us together and i wanna but obviously not sex right away. we have liked each other for two years and we are gonna try and make it work. how do you go from being friends to being lovers?

2006-10-27 00:36:02 · 7 answers · asked by maria h 1

Reseach for sexual therapy and psychology course, and a bit pervy for all those at home with no partner and a spare hand.

Have you ever dared tell anyone what your ultimate sexual fantasy is? How did they react? Have you ever acted out your fantasies and did the experience live up to or even exceed expectations?

Dont be afraid to share. You are faceless and nameless here - let rip!

2006-10-27 00:35:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

its hard I kno, but how in the world do u just move on??

2006-10-27 00:33:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend very much we have been together 4 years but sometimes he really scares me when he gets angry and freaks out, and embarasses me in public by sarting arguments with people who have done nothing wrong, he has raised his hand to me a few times and strangled me but he has never hit me. he tells me he really loves me and i know he does but do you think one day he will hit me, he calls me names and **** and tells me i cant go out!

2006-10-27 00:32:17 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous