i'm planning a trip to see someone in december, its out of the country..he says he loves me,,but i am 100% sure he is seeing other people, tho he says he is not..he want to start a relationship, but i feel i can't trust him, i know some of this is due to the distant...if things go well one of us will be moving,,but also i don't want to just be a week of fun for him, and then he say "oh sorry, its not going to work out" just some advice...
2006-10-27 01:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by donttalkjustplay05 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was in the same situation with my husband when we were dating...
i went to NY in the summer to meet him.. i was nervous at first, thinking, will he love me? And, is he just going to use me? Well all i can tell you is if you dont trsut the guy, dont go. Simple... you have to trust him. If your nervous, thats fine... i was too! Its another way to express excitement :) anyways, I hope you have a real blast down there.. im at Aussiethecihuahua@yahoo.com if y ou want more info about my trip or any other questions :)
Bye hunny
kim <3
2006-10-27 01:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kim Buns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more confident in this relationship...What is making you doubtful? Did someone in the past due you wrong and afraid of getting hurt again?...Dont hold back and later on regret not going...Life is all about trials and tribulations...You will never know if he is being faithful or if he is the one if you back down...Dont give up just think positive! Good Luck
2006-10-27 08:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 100% sure he is seeing other people then why would you go out of the country for him? that makes no sence! run dont walk back to your computer and find someone you can TRUST!
if you decide to go keep your pants up and dont give into something you will regret when you get back home
2006-10-27 08:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't judge till you meet that guy and see him
stay with him for a while and you can know his true feelings and if you find out that he is just playing end this relationship from the begining
and face him with what is inside you tell him that u have this feelings inside you and see his comments
Good Luck, hope its going to work out between you two :)
2006-10-27 08:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Soulmate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 100% certain that he is seeing other people then you have just answered your own question.
NEXT!
2006-10-27 08:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i dont kno if i'm givin top rated advise here but he sound slike he doesn't deserve your love... give him the thumbs down... if he really loved u u'd kno that he's not cheating on u...it comes naturally as like a sixth sence!! love someont that will be as comitted as u... i'm no one to judge but he really sounds like a playa and you sound really nice so dont risk gettin ur heart broken ova him, it's really not worth it!!
2006-10-27 08:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Megzie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would save the air fare
2006-10-27 08:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GO AND ENJOY THE TRIP.
2006-10-27 08:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by crane1951@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you can't trust him. why bother going?
2006-10-27 08:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋