How do you move on?

Question

its hard I kno, but how in the world do u just move on??

Answer 1

If you dont move on, the world will move on without you. You miss the love, the life, the feelings. I think the best way to get over someone is to focus on the negative apects of the relationship. When people break up, I think of it as a freeing experience. Youre open to new people, new oppoertunities. When me and my ex broke up, I thought about all the good things. The fact I was able to meet others, I didnt think he deserved me, because I was a truely good person. I knew he sucked and no one could love him like I did. I thought he was a loser. I was happy because I was able to save money, have fun, flirt. Date, and he was no longer keeping me from finding my true love out here. So, more than likely, you have more than enough negative to focus on. Just realize that the goods were great, sure, but the bad shouldnt have been there.

Answer 2

HOW INDEED??????????? Everyon is different and although we all basically feel the same feelings in different stages in our lives we are all individuals and we all need our own amount of time to get over things. But as to how to actually do it this moving on thing, i guess u just have to get on with everyday things and stick to a routine and cry yourself to sleep at nite occasionally and hopefully the feelings will fade and maybe someone will come along and pick up all your broken pieces and glue you back together again... i hope so...good luck

Answer 3

We don't get to choose who we fall in love with.
I once had the same feelings. I couldn't sleep. I had a hard time working. All I thought about was her and how much she could hurt me but I still loved her at the same time. You can believe me when I tell you I wished I was never born.
You can also believe me when I say the painful, empty feeling in your guts will go away. I didn't think it would but it did a few months after she was gone.
It will for you too...I promise

Answer 4

The best way to get over a man is to get another one.
Say NEXT! That is moving.on!

When you are driving you look forward if you were looking in the rear view mirror what would you see? You would see behind you. If you keep looking behind you when you are driving what will happen? You will wreck. So keep going forward and do not look back. That is moving on!

Answer 5

learn to forgive and let go cause forgetting is impossible. don't dwell into the pass cause there's nothing that can be done to undo the pass. living with regrets will only drag a person down but looking ahead to a new direction and working out for it will only produce a new life. as it is easier said than done but it's self determination and choice to do so. do it for yourself and not others cause you know you deserve a better life than now.

Answer 6

Time heals all wounds.

The length of time depends on the person, allow yourself as much time as you need and only you will knw when you are finally free.

Answer 7

haaaaaaaaaa, funny i ask myself that everyday... i even pray that the hurt goes away or that he comes back..... but thats not moving on thats holding on to the last bit of my last relationship... i tell you that it takes time.... Time and doing things you really like... go out with mates, party n watch movies... try this: Dress up very nice sexy lookin go out n flirt, flirt for fun..... take numbers if you wish but dont give feel in control and happy............ good luck....... Have your hair done treat urslf n shop...

Answer 8

one day at a time. you make yourself get up and go to work/school, cook, clean, shop pay bills. All the necessary things you must do...must be done. And, slowly the pain will lessen.

Answer 9

I stay focused on what interest me.
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I'm not sure if that is "moving on"
or
remaining myself.
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Then when "I SEE" someone else that shows up that is interesed in me (and me interested in them)

well then,
I must be ready to be with someone else since there is mutual interest..
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Answer 10

One step at a time, one day at a time.