i'm going away with a boy i like. we are gonna be there for the whole weekend, but it's not a date. i think he is gonna try and get us together and i wanna but obviously not sex right away. we have liked each other for two years and we are gonna try and make it work. how do you go from being friends to being lovers?
2006-10-27 00:36:02 · 7 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you start out by being friends, you know so much more about a person. You usually know the past history of someone and know how they feel about things. Communication is so important and you can carry that into your romantic relationship. Stay honest with each other and take it slow. Don't rush in and do something you will regret. You already have two years invested in your relationship and that will help make the transition easier. Good luck to you both and I hope it works out.
2006-10-27 00:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship is a great foundation to have in a relationahip, my bf were freinds b4 we became a couple and we've been together for almost a year now. and it's great to know that having sex isn't the main thing, we can still talk and have a laugh like we use to as friends, it's jus if things don't work out it's hard, but u can't think like that, jus go and enjoy urself and see what happens, if it's meant to be it'll be.
2006-10-27 07:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with yourself about what you're planning to do. Spending a weekend with this guy means you are going to become sexually involved so the casual friendship no longer exists. If you can't be truthful with others you should at least be truthful with yourself.
2006-10-27 07:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually slowly --- it depends on how you feel and the longer you wait the more confident you are that both of you are after the emotional connection not the sex --- not suggest waiting forever --- the time will be determined by you --- dont stress it will happen gently and wonderfully
2006-10-27 07:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no milestone involved and its not like climbing a staircase........ you take it easy. Let it be and see what comes out of it..... you have been mates for long so your at ease together which is great... do things that feel natural, kiss n touch sex wnt happn unless you want it to........ do not force something to happn allow it to.......
2006-10-27 07:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by apple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are friends and want to be lovers ?
euuu, yuck !
well good luck, then
2006-10-27 07:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Martin the baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll happen naturaly if its meant to happen
2006-10-27 07:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by Eurale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋