Living Out Sexual Fantasies?

Question

Reseach for sexual therapy and psychology course, and a bit pervy for all those at home with no partner and a spare hand.

Have you ever dared tell anyone what your ultimate sexual fantasy is? How did they react? Have you ever acted out your fantasies and did the experience live up to or even exceed expectations?

Dont be afraid to share. You are faceless and nameless here - let rip!

Answer 1

I fantasise about making pink angels turn red..............oh you can guess how x

Answer 2

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Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.

Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.

She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!

Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!

Answer 3

Yes I have told people. My wife reacted by showing willing, then became a Christian and now I can't even think about it without being damned to Hell for all eternity.

I then proceeded to live out my fantasy, on 5 separate occasions! The first was the most unbelievable, phenomenal, absolutley out lived all my expectations, the rest were bad and nowhere near the first. But as I say, I'll try anything twice. One to find out if I like it and at least one more attempt to make sure I was right the first time.

Answer 4

Absolutely! It's actually quite healthy to openly discuss your fantasies. If you are in a committed relationship your partner should be receptive to your thoughts and needs. However, having said that you also need to be respectful of your partners values and not expect that person to cross the line just for you. I share mine all the time with my wife and yes we have acted out some of them. Here are two.

Unconscious Sorority Girl - I be you can figure this one out...

and,

Re-enacting the train love scene from the movie Risky Business.

Good luck.

Barkel

Answer 5

I did live out a Fantasy, and it ruined a Great relationship, I was with a lady for about 5 yrs total, about 3 yrs in we talked about swinging, we tried it, It was fun but she had a fantasy of being with a woman alone, I let it happen and she had that emotional contact with her something most men can't give a woman, so as far as i know they are still together, she did use me as a Man toy for a while after we split up :), But now I have the Perfect wife, something Great out of something horrible!

Answer 6

As a woman in a small hick town where everyone knows everyone elses business, I waited a long time to tell anyone my ultimate fantasy. When I finally told my boyfriend he was all for it. But after being cheated on badly by my ex-husband and my best friend, I couldn't do it. Physically I am ready for it. Emotionally I am not even close. The fantasy? Sorry, that's privelaged information.

Answer 7

well, my partner knows pretty much all my fantasies but not the ultimate one cause i haven't figured that out yet. The reaction was good of course and we tried a few things too.
I tell you most of the times is not as you imagine it, at least the first time. After a while you can't get enough of it and then you get bored.
Last year i was crazy taking photos of us having sex but know this phase is over.
that doesn't mean that it's not worth it cause it gives new tension to relationships and routine in sex can kill the relationship

Answer 8

I have been indulging in my fantasy lately online w/ a guy I totally dig. I am to the point that I want him here w/ me now. I had a feeling when I first started talking to this guy that he was someone I would love to be with. I hope someday we will get to live out our fantasy, but for now it will just have to be a dream. He will always be in the back of my mind, and always in my heart.

Answer 9

A fantasy is like a Ferrari, you dream of fulfilling it, but when it actually happens, you realise that there are problems associated with it.

I discuss fantasies with my partner and we sometimes make them happen, but generally they are better placed to stimulate the brain.

I would love to have no strings sex with an older woman, but this is definitely something I couldn't share with my partner.

Answer 10

Some things are just best left as a fantasy because people can get hurt in the process of living them out.

Answer 11

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